allison443 said:
Thanks for posting this! Very interesting! I think spending diaries are a great tool for everyone.
I am from NYC, so the amounts didn't surprise me, but I think a lot of people in other areas might be surprised. Especially how it seems there is so much take out food and eating out.
Yes, I did find that surprising, but then the people who bought groceries seemed to pay too much for them too (judging by my Southern standards): one guy spent $20 (and his fiancee spent another $20) on HALF a bag of groceries. I guess it's just really expensive to eat in New York, no matter how you do it.
It did seem to me that these folks were spending way too much eating out -- I mean, $7-10 for a take-out salad? Almost $2 for an apple? Even if the guy is a millionaire, if he eats an apple that often (and that is a good choice), why doesn't he bring in a bag of them on Monday? He's riding in a taxi; it's not like it'd be difficult to haul them through the subway. And the spending on coffee, other drinks, and alcohol seemed way out of proportion to me.
Several had some "big-ticket items" in their weekly spending: Iron Maiden tickets, Lollipop concert tickets, fund-raiser dinner tickets. Those probably wouldn't be every-week purchases.
I think the student and the young professional shocked me the most. These folks can't afford to spend lavishly -- the million-plus professional can. Proportionally, the younger folks are spending more than he is on luxury items like meals out. At first glance, it seems that the third guy -- the mid-level professional -- is most realistic in his spending, though it's still high.
These people would probably be equally shocked by my spending habits. Let's see, what have I spent recently?
Saturday:
Groceries for a family of four: $168, kind of high for us, but it includes canned sodas and snacks for work (so we don't buy $2 apples or $1.50 Diet Cokes), pumpkins for Halloween, and steaks for Dad's birthday dinner
Supplies for oldest daughter's school project: $4
Total: $172
Sunday:
Tithe at church: Won't say, doesn't seem right to discuss
Buffet lunch for me, two kids, great-grandma after church -- Dad left at noon for business trip, so he didn't eat: $35 + tip
Gas: $30
Total: $70
Monday -- no school:
Haircuts for me and one kid: $24
Lunch for me and two kids while running scout errands: $15
Back to grocery store for frozen pizzas and junk food for last-minute kids' sleepover: $25
Badges for scout troop: $12 (will be reimbursed)
Craft supplies for scout troop: $25 (will be reimbursed)
Camp rental for scout troop: $140 (will be reimbursed)
Total: $64 actually out of pocket
Tuesday -- no school:
Nothing spent
Will eat free hot dog dinner at church tonight, then work at Fall Festival carnival; donated lots of candy for the festival earlier, but will pay nothing tonight
Total: $0
Wow -- I seem to be eating away from home a lot too; however, this isn't typical for me. On school days we always "brown bag" it. This represents four no-school days, and I know that I tend to spend MUCH more on no-school days. Dad is out of town on business, so he's eating out every meal, but he's eating on the company's dime -- I won't count that.