Wanted to give an update since I'm the OP! I gave the whole crew the room options back in May, and they all had to do their own research with pros and cons and be ready to share their thoughts and preferences. By unanimous decision, we booked at CBR with a 5th sleeper.
I know not everyone can travel with friends the way we do, but as I mentioned earlier, they're really more like family we chose than ordinary friends. But here's some of why we went with CBR and how we plan to make it work:
First of all, everyone preferred the theming over the other options, and the pool alone had most of the group swayed. In fact, we even changed our original travel plans to include a day at the resort because they loved the Caribbean vibe so much. The Skyliner access also was a strong selling point, along with the central location. And finally, the cost was less than two values or AoA, so it allowed us to have more days to our trip.
I'm under 5ft tall, and my son (who will be 12 in the trip) is super short as well, so we know either of us would fit in the small fold out. We've traveled a lot together and we've had to share a bathroom before, plus both of our families live in small houses (seriously - the main part of our 100+ yr old house is 750 sq ft and theirs is only slightly larger), so we're all totally used to sharing a cramped space.
No one in our group wears makeup, only M.A. uses a hair dryer, and we'll stick with our usual shower schedule on trips together - 1 in the morning, 2 in the afternoon, 2 at night, and everyone takes short showers because we all lived through the drought in CA and learned how to conserve. Having the barn doors helps for getting ready, too, and we'll bring some hanging organizers to maximize our storage space in the room. Only DS and I are "hang out in the room" people - the others are never in the room except to sleep and bathe - and DS prefers to sit outside over inside anyway.
So I know our choice wouldn't be everyone's preference, but we're all excited and are aware of the challenges but willing to work around it. Plus we have 15+ years of travelling together and a lot of patience and forgiveness for everyone's quirks! The trip is booked, and we'll be at CBR on June 7!