First of all I wouldn't worry about colors too much. It seemed to me that there weren't too many people that liked my color scheme... at first. I wanted everything black and white and I wanted the flowers to have my colors.
So the bridesmaids had hot pink bouquets. I had red roses with stargazers. So I suppose they were on a monotone color scheme in a way, but I got plenty of crap from "family/friends" who didn't like the colors. AND it doesn't help that my cousin was planning her wedding thats a month after mine was. So her and her sister were always dogging my ideas and budgetting. (But our entire wedding was paid for in cash, no credit what so ever... and I have always been a creative type and they aren't.)
But anyway, maybe everyone hears this at their wedding, but I had so many family members tell me that I should be a wedding planner. And they just loved the entire scheme.
BUt... anyway what I am trying to say, is that any colors you like and appeal to you are going to create your vision and what you like. So if you like hot pink, green, and blue, with touches of black and white zebra, go for it. I doubt Disney wouldn't be able to come up with something perfect. (It might help if you and Eric just make a decision and then don't give room for any opinions - just say to yourself "I know what I want")
Oh - I wish I had pictures - but when I met with my florist I told him to do whatever he wanted with our centerpieces, I just wanted them to be tall. They cost me $20 each!!! and were STUNNING!! I mean they were so pretty, my favorite part of the wedding (well apart from marrying the love of my life

). I think it is because I gave him a lot of creative free will.
And to answer your question...
The other flavors of cake I had were: Strawberry with Lemon filling, Banana with Bavarian Cream filling, and white with Raspberry filling.
They were rated:
1. Choc/PB
2. Strawberry
3. Banana
4. Technically the white cake... but that was because nobody ate that part, lol.