There were a lot of posts I wanted to quote and reply to but now that I'm actually on my PC and can I'm too lazy, so sorry!
Wednesday I ended up going to my parents house and working in my parents basement for 4 hours.
my parents are empty nesters with a huge 5 bedroom house, a full attic, garage & finished basement full of stuff. My dad has always been what I call a "pack rat" and will not get rid of anything. He's been sick for almost 3 years so the little things he used to do like taking recycling, etc is not getting done so it's piling up. They had water in their basement a few summers ago and had to rip out the carpet and walls in their nice finished basement. With my dad being sick and my brothers not living at home the work never got done. For some reason he started bringing boxes of stuff out of the attic and just sitting them in the basement so now there is all this stuff everywhere. The work to finish the floors and walls can't get done until all this stuff is out of the way. My mom has been depressed because of my dad being chronically ill so she hasn't done anything about it and my dad not only doesn't want to he's not feeling up to it. My one brother is OCD like me so when he's home he destashes. Since my house is pretty much done I decided I would start volunteering a few hours a week to helping them. The sooner the stuff is dealt with in the basement, the sooner the work can hopefully be done. It just makes me sad to see their nice house falling apart. When my mom got off work I was shocked but she got really into helping me! We made a lot of progress! I think me jumping in and starting was some motivation, hopefully she will keep at it little by little. I piled up a TON of recycling. My dad always says he will take trash to his dumpster at work and take the recycling but he hardly ever gets around to it (if hes not at work hes sleeping pretty much) so I told him we would be more than glad to take the recycling for him if he would let us, and he said we could as long as he was there to see it. The plan is to go tomorrow and load up as much of the recycling as we can while he is home and DH will take it to the recycling center. That will clear up so much space so we can sort through all the rest of the random boxes of stuff from the attic and the stuff that magically accumulated.
I brought about 6 boxes full of my old stuff home Wednesday night. Yesterday I sorted through all of it. I ended up with a bag & a half of trash and 3 bags and 2 boxes to donate. I only ended up with a few 'keep' things. There was a small bag of my baby clothes that washed up well so I'll hang on to them. Of course I have a son but these were some favorite outfits so I'm willing to hang on to them in case I have a daughter. I also found a bag that had my combat boots & dress shoes from when I was in the Air Force. I have no idea what to do with them. I really don't have a lot of sentiment attachment to things but I don't want to get rid of them but I haven't worn them since I got out. They aren't girly boots, maybe my son will want to wear them? I don't know, I put them in a bag to think about.
I went through all the 'get rid of' boxes in the laundry room and sorted ebay, donate, etc. I got all the donate stuff together with the stuff from my parents house and DH is out now dropping the stuff off for me.
I need to get back into the swing of listing things on ebay to get them out. I listed 2 things today!
I invited my MIL over the other night to see DS and get the baby stuff. It did not go well. You'd think in their situation (and I know I'm being judgy but she asks us for money on a regular basis and we give it to her and she is one of those people who complains non stop about how broke she is baby is due in about 2 months and they don't have a single thing bought) she would be a little grateful for all the practically brand new baby stuff I gave her for SIL but she was not. She did not say thank you and complained about how it wasn't 'girly'. Um, I have a son. What did she expect? We didn't know he was a boy before he was born so our travel system, pack n play, etc. is all gender neutral. She wouldn't take the brand new diaper genie or the brand new crib mattress (still in the plastic, we bought it for a crib my parents had at their house but we ended up not needing it ever) because SIL wants a round crib that requires a special mattress. SIL wants to cloth diaper. I hope she doesn't think that I'm giving her all of DS's cloth diapers because they are still on his butt, lol. I'm a nice person but she makes me crazy. I was about to say fine, I'll keep all this stuff then and you can go buy all brand new 'girly' stuff. I've been picking up packages of diapers for SIL but since she doesn't want them I'm taking them to the food bank next week. I also had a bunch of gender neutral clothes, blankets, towels, etc. that were brand new but I'll donate them too. Sorry to rant MIL just really upset me.
I cleaned out our vitamin/medicine shelf in the kitchen yesterday and was surprised to find a bunch of expired stuff. Looks so much better now!
Oh and all that raving I did about my awesome laundry system... I am so far behind lol. I think that is what I need to do today. I'll probably work some more on my scrapbook while DS is napping. I need to finish our 2014 photo book but I need to get some pictures from thanksgiving and Christmas from my mom's phone first. I haven't even started our October or December vacation photo books. Aye... back to work!
I hope everyone has a productive weekend!