Okay crazy clutter cleaners....
I'm all for this! DH and I used to be really good. Used to be good because in our first 8 years married we moved 7 times! Then we moved into our current house. And we suspected we'd move before DD was 5. She's 8.5, we're slightly upside down, and here we sit with 9 years of stuff in some cases we haven't touched!
I wouldn't say we're hoarders, like I said, we moved 7 times in 8 years, we couldn't! But there are items that I'm wondering WTH to do with??! For example.....
I collect Elmos. I probably have 8 huge bins in the basement filled with Elmos of every kind imaginable. Back in the day my dream was to have a room to display them in. But that kind of passed. As did buying new things for my collection some years ago (I started collecting at 16 when finding Elmo items was very rare. As anyone with a kid knows now, it's quite the opposite). I can't imagine selling the items. But at the same time, I can't imagine doing anything with them. What would you do? We really have no where in the house for me actually to display them if I wanted to....And the collection ranges from autographed stuffed animals, to clothing, to smaller toys, down to silly things like toothbrushes.
Along those lines....I have probably all my stuff animals from when I was a child. I hung onto them for years (again in bins, so not gross and musty, etc). I know there is NO WHERE that will take stuffed animal donations (I've looked into this for my kids build a bears, etc). So if I purge these, am I looking at truly just throwing these items away? I've tried charities, police/fire, hospitals, etc, etc. No one wants these types of things. I've been donating to my children's day care over the years these items, but I'm sure even they are getting sick of me showing up w/ 10 grocery bags filled, LOL.
Are you saving anything from your past? I know I have boxes of just random things; old craft beads, wedding napkins (we've been married 18 years this year), extra wedding invites, old books I thought at one time were cool, dance programs from childhood, etc. Stuff I've saved, but do I really need it I guess? And if not, do I just throw these items away? I guess I get some of this from my mom, who saved a TON of my childhood toys (despite moving out of our childhood home). Which my kids do now play with. BUT, my kids likely would careless about my wedding napkins. (I should add, they are already in my wedding scrapbook, so I guess I could go ahead and just use them, right?).
We're great at purging/donating things like outgrown clothes, toys, etc. I guess I struggle with letting go of my "past" but if it's just in boxes....what's the point too, right?
What do you do with old yearbooks? Going back to Elementary school? I have the letters my husband sent when he was at basic training. I don't even WANT to read them, LOL. But I have them. Keep?
Okay I'm rambling. HELP!
For what it's worth, here's my 2 cents:
First, purge as if you were moving again, think: If I were moving, would I move this? Because if you wouldn't, it's not worth keeping.
Second, the Elmos: Do they have sentimental value? If you donated some of the items would some child get more appreciation from them than you currently are? Could you keep, say, one bin of favorites and donate/sell the rest? Although Elmo is common now, some of the items are older and could be harder to find, you may find a market for them on ebay.
Third, the childhood and wedding things: If you have more than one of something, the napkins for example, maybe save one more and pitch the extras. The toys I say keep for grandkids. The school yearbooks, if you can't remember most of the people in them I suggest throwing them out, the exception being high school because those are ones you're most likely to look through again. School papers, throw them out. Your kids don't want them. Keep the letters from your husband, your kids will probably want to see them when they're older, especially after you're gone, it will be a special link to their parent's past.
Fourth, stuffed animals: Yard sale? Free on craigslist or freecycle? And STOP BUYING THEM! LOL, I know they're hard to resist, I have one child that loves to have them and snuggle them, but we have to limit them or they truly do take over. Oh, try the USO, I just remembered, my kids have gotten stuffed animals from my husband when he was deployed that the USO donated.
It's okay to keep things from your past, even if they are in boxes, but you need to think first of all, how special are these items to you? Will your kids want them after you pass? The craft items, will you use them again? If so, dig them out and put them where you can get to them.
Now, with all that being said, my view is tainted. I had a somewhat dysfunctional childhood and I have almost nothing from it, even high school and every now and then I will think "Gee, I wish I had my yearbook" or something like that, but in the end it's just stuff and I have the memories.