UGH!!!!
I seriously hate the bad news I have had to deal with this morning. I really need to vent, but can't on FB....and really shouldn't here either.
My son and daughter in law's first trip to Disney was during the time they had custody of her sister's two kids. Logan was 18 months and Lucas was 6 months. Lucas stayed behind with my daughter and her husband.
The bio mom has a severe drug problem. The process she had to go through was over a year long. Just to get her two precious little angels again. You would have thought she learned.
She has never been able to hold a job...or a car...or a place to live...the only things she can manage was a phone and drugs. She managed to snag an invite from my son and dil a month ago when she moved back to the state and had no place to live.
She was stealing my grand princess' pain meds. Unfortunately there was no way to prove it. Since she didn't need it any more they pour it all down the drain. My DIL just had a kidney stone removed surgically last week. She did not like the pain meds they gave her, because she doesn't like to feel drugged...so she put them in a dresser drawer.
On Monday, she went back to work. On Tuesday, she discovered that 8 of the pills were missing. Before she could confront her sister that afternoon...another 8 disappeared.
DFACS will be going over today to take custody of the kids and cart her off to jail. It is causing a huge rift between my son and his wife. My DIL feels guilty. Somehow it is HER fault that her SISTER stole drugs from her.
If they (my son and DIL ) take custody of the kids, they will not be able to go to Disney in 5 weeks...adding 2 kids to the trip is way more money than they can come up with right now.
If they (my son and DIL) don't take custody of the boys, neither of them will be able to enjoy Disney. The boys will go into foster care.
Once upon a time, we were on the emergency list for foster care...we have already gotten a call... there is no way we can take them.
This has been a really unpleasant situation for a couple of weeks. It has put both my husband and son in danger...they are both law enforcement officers. To NOT report this puts them on the hook. While I am selfishly glad that it is finally coming to a head...I am so scared of how this is going to play out. Right now it is not looking like a fun trip...