@Party.Of.4-NY>>>FL
I was just wondering on Saturday if there were any gents in this little group

Can't tell from most screen names.
I read a review that said you don't have to make the dessert party a huge time killer (maybe Josh @easyWDW).... he said he checked in, then took off to do something else, then went right to the parade spot in time for the parade (maybe 7:25), then got in a quick M&G (right in town square?), and then went back for the desserts/fireworks. If I remember correctly, he said that you could stand against the railing in TT for the fireworks. I'm not sure if people have said that isn't true and you must stick to your seat now?? I think we have to wait for some HalloWishes reviews to see what happens.
I've never done HDDMR, but travelling to get there would be a huge waste of time for me. Prime parade spot is why I booked Holiday Wishes Dessert Party.