First I want to say how sorry I am for what you're going through. I've been there and it just plain sucks.
I understand trying to focus energy on something else, that's what I did every time. And what better than a Disney wedding?
People have been really cruel in your PJ. They should really take it to PM instead of publicly treating you like that. It was yours to share and unless they've got something nice to say, I think they should keep their big mouths shut. How hurtful and unnecessary!
Hugs
Brittany