16 and Pregnant/Teen Mom Thread - Sad but true...we r hooked!

[airhead]

I tried to avoid talking about Amber in my previous post because i tend to get very angry but you bought it up so ill yell about it lol

AMBER YOU LAZY STUPID WHINY DUMMY YOU MAKE ME SICK!!!

I feel so bad for Gary because Amber is absolutely repulsive . EVERY scene Amber was shoving Leah in that pack and play with a bottle in her mouth . She was too lazy to even feed the baby in her lap! They shouldve called CPS on her seriously . Always shoving her in that play pen saying GO TO SLEEEEEEP LEAH!! LAY DOWWWWNNN LEAH!!! She totally ignored her just letting her wander about while screaming at Gary.

Im sorry i just dont see what was so stressful..You have a man who works pays the bills and all your lazy butt have to do is cook,clean and take care of your kid! You go to school for 6 hours twice a week what the heck?! I cant believe she used the excuse " TAKING CARE OF A KID IS A FULL TIME JOB GAAARRRRRY!" Yeah shoving her in that pack and play with a bottle all day is tough work...It's so hard you cant even get off your tail to clean your filthy disgusting house . Did you see the TRASH and FILTH all over the place with the used cat litter everywhere ?!

She just showed the world that she is not wife material. She is not even live in babymama material. She shouldve had that house clean , dinner ready when Gary got home AND gave him some . Thats what a woman does for her man especially when you arent working. She just made her life 10000 times more difficult. Her own family dont even want to be around her hmmm i wonder why!? Her father couldnt wait to get her out of his house . Where was her mom when she moved into that hotel like an impulsive immature brat?!

Amber is a teenager. I think she does the best she can. Taking care of a baby,working AND school. That's a full plate.

 

[belle&sebastiansmom]

Where is Farrah's daughter's father?

 

[starrzone]

Where is Farrah's daughter's father?

If I'm not mistaken, I believe he was killed in a car accident when she was pregnant.

 

[mom22belles]

Where is Farrah's daughter's father?

His dead. I read he died in a car crash not long after Farrah annonced her pregnancy.

 

[Sparx]

Did I miss something, I have been watching did Amber and Gary get back together?

I have really gained respect for Gary during the season and not playing into Amber fits she throws

i didn't mind gary at first, but when he left her waiting for HOURS before picking her up after her car broke down and his only excuse was, "i have this thing called a bed, and i like to sleep in it sometimes." ugh. i wanted to scream.

i really hope amber isn't pregnant.

and i hated how when farrah tried to get birth control, her parents freaked out. hello, birth control could have prevented all of this in the first place!

 

[MarilIncredible]

I didn't see the show but I really like Dr.Drew.

Catelynn gave up Carley because of how crazy her mom and Tyler dad are. She had enough sense to know that that baby had no chance around her mom and Tyler dad. So I have no pity for Catelynn mom, she treats Catelynn like trash. I'm glad they were both able to stay with Tyler mom. she seems like a normal person

Dr. Drew was good on Loveline - his advice about using condoms, sexual health, etc. was spot-on. It is sad to see him morph into the fame-monger he is today. I've lots all respect for the man. I put him in the same lowly category as Dr. Laura and Dr. Phil.

 

[Sparx]

and am i the only one who thinks ryan cheated on maci when he was working out of state? when he got back he was COMPLETELY different, and wouldn't even talk to her (on camera at least) and just dropped his stuff off and left.

 

[Mrs. Charming]

LOL I'm glad I'm not the only one watching this show!

Amber drives me up a wall... I hope she isn't pregnant again. It's amazing she's kept her daughter as long as she has. Poor Gary... dude didn't know what he got himself into.

Farrah- 2 words, SPOILED BRAT!!

Maci's a sweetie and she's trying her best, Ryan is a total douche... there's no saving that dude. Bentley deserves a better daddy than that!

Catelynn and Tyler... they're so cute. I only wish them well I can't imagine how Catelynn feels, I just wanna give her a hug.

I'm dying to see the new season now... this is horrible! I'm an addict!

 

[PirateSnowmen]

and am i the only one who thinks ryan cheated on maci when he was working out of state? when he got back he was COMPLETELY different, and wouldn't even talk to her (on camera at least) and just dropped his stuff off and left.

I didn't see the earlier Teen Mom episodes, but Ryan cheating on Maci wouldn't surprise me in the least. It seems to me like they've tried to work on their relationship (well, Maci seems like she's tried) and it just isn't working. Ryan just doesn't care enough.

Amber and Gary both bug me to no end. The last thing they need is another child. I really hope Amber isn't pregnant again.

Farrah annoys me the most. She's one of the biggest spoiled brats I've ever seen. The reports I heard said that her mom choked her and slapped her while they were arguing over Sophia. Although I don't feel like that was the correct way to handle things, Farrah sure did deserve it! She also doesn't seem to have the connection with Sophia that Amber and Maci have with their children. She doesn't feel bad at all for leaving Sophia with her parents while she goes out partying and trying to find boys. The episode where she was trying to find an apartment/roommates made me laugh the hardest. Why would college-aged teens/adults want you AND your child to live with them? She needs a reality check.

Although I love both Catelynn and Tyler, I do feel that they need to back off a bit with Carly. Adoption was definitely the right choice for them, but they need to realize that Carly isn't and never will be theirs. I also think that after the show is over Carly's parents will stop sending updates. It almost seems like they changed their mind to an open adoption since Catelynn and Tyler were on the show, and now that the show is over they won't feel the need to keep the connection open.

 

[staley7580]

WOW, That all I can say WOW. I feel like I have been transported back to the 1950's

Right!!

I watched.. My husband would catch bits and pieces while he was on the computer, or doing other things.. and Ryan would make him SO MAD. My husband ADORES his children.. He is full on whenever he is home. So for a jerk like that to just ignore his gf and baby?? OMG. We hate Ryan!!

Farrah too!! YIKES! Oooohhhh... Someday, her baby is going t hate her.

 

[pigletgirl]

So, Amber is pregnant?? Or not?? Gosh, she really is the last one who should be pregnant again... :/

Farrah needs to get her act together. Yes, technically she's still a teen, but that is NOT an excuse to not be a mother!! Yes, she does have alot of pain in her life, but there are better ways to handle it.

Go Maci! Dump Ryan! He's a total *** and needs a serious wake up call. She does a pretty darn good job with Bentley.

Catelynn and Tyler.....too early for an engagement ring IMO! Tyler seems a bit insecure to me. And it wouldn't surprise me at ALL if Catelynn got pregnant again. Just a feeling I have.

Can't wait for next season!

 

[~disneydiva~]

Oh I'm so glad I'm not the only one who watches this!

Love Maci! She's doing so good....just stay away from Ryan!!

Farrah sadly reminds me of my sister. She got pregnant her senior year of high school and after she had the baby, my parents pretty much raised the baby while my sister was out partying. She did not live with my parents. The baby did though.

Amber has issues.

Catelynn did the best thing for her baby. I think thats great.

 

[anniemae]

I love this show. I think Catelyn an Tyler are so cute, but they are soooooooo young. In some ways though, they are wise beyond their years. They made the ultimate sacrafice for Carley. They need to let go and realize they will never be Carley's parents. They will always be Carley's birth mom and birth dad, but not her parents. They gave birth to Carley, but the adoptive couple is parenting Carley.

 

[Sparx]

i realize that the adoptive parents of carly really were probably only doing the semi open adoption to make sure that tyler and catelynn didn't back out, but i bet they're really regretting it now. i really don't think they understood the idea of the open adoption, and thought that they would get to see carly all the time, and play with her, but not "raise" her you know? but thats completely not what it is. carly is not their child any more. i hope they realize that eventually.

 

[PirateSnowmen]

So, Amber is pregnant?? Or not?? Gosh, she really is the last one who should be pregnant again... :/

Farrah needs to get her act together. Yes, technically she's still a teen, but that is NOT an excuse to not be a mother!! Yes, she does have alot of pain in her life, but there are better ways to handle it.

Go Maci! Dump Ryan! He's a total *** and needs a serious wake up call. She does a pretty darn good job with Bentley.

Catelynn and Tyler.....too early for an engagement ring IMO! Tyler seems a bit insecure to me. And it wouldn't surprise me at ALL if Catelynn got pregnant again. Just a feeling I have.

Can't wait for next season!

She said she had a feeling she might be pregnant again. She doesn't know for sure.

i realize that the adoptive parents of carly really were probably only doing the semi open adoption to make sure that tyler and catelynn didn't back out, but i bet they're really regretting it now. i really don't think they understood the idea of the open adoption, and thought that they would get to see carly all the time, and play with her, but not "raise" her you know? but thats completely not what it is. carly is not their child any more. i hope they realize that eventually.

I completely agree. Honestly, after watching last nights episode, I think Catelynn and Tyler are finally realizing that Carly isn't theirs. They even said they didn't care about not knowing the adoptive family's last name. Unfortunately, I think the update the family sent that was shown on the show last night will "re-open the wounds" of the birth/adoption, so to speak. I think Catelynn & Tyler will finally get it through their heads that Carly isn't theirs after most, if not all, communication with the adoptive family is broken (which I think will happen now that the show is over).

 

[parith1114]

Another one here, thought I was the only one who likes this show. I just think Maci is adorable and a great mom, she deserves sooooo much better. It's obvious Ryan has no desire to be a dad or partner. Oh, Amber, my, my, my...she got off easy last night and clearly hasn't changed. Did you see how angry she got when Gary was going to talk about her dating someone else? Wow, I thought she was going to smack him again. There are no words for Farrah, she honestly believes she is a good mom. Crazy! I have never seen such an entitled little brat...ever. Catelyn and Tyler, are a sweet couple, and have certainly been through a whole lot in their lives. I can't begin to imagine the pain and regret that could come from giving your child away, even if it's for the best. I believe this show could actually be bad for them. I think it would be easier for them to move on if there wasn't a camera in their face reminding them and encouraging them to express their feelings of loss. Does anyone know what happened to the other girl on 16 and pregnant? The one who's boyfriend was going into the military, just wondering.

 

[Minnie's Pal]

Don't forget next week's episode of unseen footage. (So we can all talk about it!)

 

[WhateverLolaWants]

Does anyone know what happened to the other girl on 16 and pregnant? The one who's boyfriend was going into the military, just wondering.

All I know is that they ended up getting married.

I thought last night's reunion show was kind of boring. I'm glad Maci finally got the guts to get away from Ryan and is now dating someone new. She's definitely the most mature of the four, and that kid is adorable.

Amber is just a weird one. I don't know if she may have suffered from postpartum depression, or is she just has a stick up her butt. I do think Gary made some mistakes, but I also think she has awfully high expectations for other people when she's not that perfect herself (the episode where she's shaking Leah like a rag doll while trying to get her tights off instead of waiting to hang up the phone first comes to mind).

Catelynn and Tyler are mature for their age, but I do think they didn't fully understand what their adoption entailed. I think they imagined being way more involved in Carly's life than they actually are. I think they are slowly realizing it, and I'm glad they are waiting to finish school before they get married.

And Farrah. Recently I've been wanting to defend her after hearing about the fight with her mother, but she proved last night how defensive and bratty she still is (even though this was taped prior to the fight). And if the rumors are true about what the fight was really about, then she's a freakin' hot mess.

 

[itsheresomewhere]

On another board I am on, someone lives near Gary and Amber. Amber is pregnant again according to them and from what I remember she should be due soon. This was in octoberish we were hearing all about them and how some in the town couldn't believe it. People who know them think Amber has PPD.

 

[We_love_WDW]

I just read that Farrah is pregnant again