MainStMandy
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Very well said! I think Lori's parents pushed her to chose adoption b/c the baby would "inconvenience" them (Lori's parents). Yes, of course its not going to be easy, but when you are family that is what you do. I just wonder what Lori is feeling now, does she resent her parents for pushing her to that decision. I mean, I am sure if her parents said we are behind you in raising your child then I am sure she probably would have led more towards keeping her child. I think she felt that she was going to be doing this totally alone. I really felt bad for her.
Don't get me wrong, I am def. NOT bashing people who put their children up for adoption, but I see that Lori was really struggling with the idea and it wasn't something that she 100% wanted to do.
I also wondered this...I feel bad for Lori that she might end up resenting her parents for pushing her into the decision. I think her parents were very harsh in some of the comments. And it's ridiculous for her mom to say things like, I KNOW this is going to end badly...go ahead and try it! And she didn't seem to condone the whole pregnancy but she was willing to let her 16/17 year old MOVE in with boyfriend...to teach her a lesson?
