Hi everyone...hope your all well
I have a popcorn moment for ya ...want to hear???
Okay so my niece after a few days of being hear was removed by her mom on the computer because she was chatting with her criminal friends and they were telling her to do all these bad things so to get removed from here and that in hopes that she would return home.
Don't remember if I told you that 2 days after my sister was here that her house was robbed because Morgan gave them the code to the alarm...
she has been flurting like crazy with guys at school and yesterday as Billie pulled up to get her from school she had grbbed some guys arm and put it around her because she was cold. She just started school there last week.
Last night she snuck on the computer and made a new MySpace account using my e-mail address and changed my password and when was done she changed it back so i would find out. I found out because branden told me that she did it. I confronted her last night about it and she did not deny it but only found out today that she used my info. to do it.
On the way to school today she was taking to a kid that I sometimes drive to school about computer games...Trent is a computer geek that for sure and is 16...he said he has played the game that has to do with stick people and Morgan replys" O isnt that game cool have you gone to the part where you can be a drug dealer? She says you have to play that it's the most cool part of the game...if you don't play that than that game is no fun..(all her friends that play it with her by the way are all drug dealers)
Trent gives a strange laugh as if to say...OOOO Kay...what ever...
She is testing her waters to see what she can and can not get away with here. She takes no responsibility for anythig wrong in her life. She does not think twice about giving an STD to any one...and does not care if they get it. she has had at least 12 STD and more than once.
she has one that has returned so she has an appt tonight at Planned parenthood to get taken care of. She is also going to start seeng a shrink that I know that is awesome once a week ...she is not cheep at $100.00 a visit but she is well worth it.
I will than talk with elezabeth(the shrink) to see if Morgan is too far gone and should go to Montana. I am going to have another talk with Morgan tonight. I also have an appt. with elizabeth to find out how to deal with Morgan and also so Morgan does not make a bad influence on my boys.
My boys get the right and wrong bit but she does not and she also does not get what a good friend is or how important family is. We will give her 6 monts here and if no improvement than we will do an intervention in the middle of the night and have her taken to Montana or my sister will come and drive her there.
When we get back from the Dr.s tonight I will confront her about identity thefting my e-mail and password to get on myspace and make her show me what she did and her password and and read what she typed she typed a very long letter last night but it did not go through...she lost connection Branden said). I will later go back into the account to see what she typed..
If she tells me no that she will not give it to me than i will have to come up with some kind of punishment. She no longer has a cell phone and I told her last night that she has lost any comp privaleges for a ,monthe which she had taken away in the first place....she has nothing left but her 16th Birthday coming up that she keeps refering to her sweet 16th. My just tell her Birthday...with a smile...I may add another month onto it and make it 2 monts or something like that.
Her Mom does not want her on the comp at all cause she will only contact those people...Darn...hard call..any ideas???????
So just got a call from the shrink and she gave me some good pointers on how to deal with her invading my privacy....she said to have her show me what she did with no punishment attatched because at this point developing trust is the issue...she said if she refuses to do it to have her go into her room for 1 hr to think about what she has done and if she still refusses to again stress "Trust" because that is what we are trying to develope ...she also said that if it were my kids that sending them to the room till they did it is different than with her because I am not her Mom...and so my methods will need to be different...which she will help me with
She told me lots of stuff so will get back to you on how it worked
So thanks for listening and getting your eyes sooo tiered reading and also to let you know that I dont veiw this as a propblem ..but an adventure
Teeeennnnnns....yuck!!!!!!
and here is a big hug from me
to all of you
still seems strange that he's gone....
Work is busy...about the time I think I'll pull my hair out it will be over, and I do get paid hourly...
...that sounds soooo sad...here is a hug for him
-- guess I don't get teenage humor.
...that means I can go to bed. 
Although I think I may still need a little time to wind down....
Yep, upset stomach for me all day. 
