Oh Angie, she is trying so hard to be a good DIL! She is only 21 and has had quite a rough life. She doesn't even talk with her own mother much! The biggest problem is the guilt trips her MIL lays on her. My niece is here for at least 8 months. Luckily my parents have a little apartment that she can stay at. Well, while she is here she is trying to LIVE here, not look at it as a visit. KWIM? Her MIL keeps saying that my niece's family will see the baby more than her, yada, yada, yada. She even invaded my poor niece right after the baby was born for a week trying to tell her what she is doing wrong instead of just helping.