DGD stayed with us last night.

Grandpa did not know she was coming so that was a fun surprise for him when he walked in the door.

She wanted to sleep in the MH, so of course we did! I had the task of taking her to the dentist today. We, of course, stopped on the way home yesterday and did just a bit of shopping. She said she had her spoilin' shoes on!
We had a good day today. It is a little over an hour drive from my house to her dentist so we had some visit/listen to Disney music time. She got one filling today and I scheduled her for 2 more visits. That child has a mouth full of work to be done still and has already had a bunch done. DSIL has always kept medical and dental ins for her (he and her mom divorced) that requires no copay at all! So he and DD thought mom would have been taking her for regular care. Well, about 4 years ago she came for her every other weekend visit and was crying with a tooth ache.

DD made an appt with a dentist for her and it seems she had never been to the dentist before!

This was 2 years after DD married her daddy. DD was so MAD!! They pay for the insurance so you'd think she could at least use it!

DD then made follow up appts and told the mom when they were. DSIL then got bills from Kaiser for NO SHOW charges because mom "forgot" to take her.

Finally, a couple of years ago DD just took charge of her dental care and started taking her to them herself, or scheduling them for when her daddy can take her which is Fridays. Occassionally he has to work overtime on Friday and at those times I pinch hit and take her. Her mom did sign releases at least so that either DD, DSIL, Dennis or I can take her. It is hard for me to just stay out of it and be nice when we take her home. Her mom has now moved them in with her 5th boyfriend since the divorce.

I did talk with DGD on the way home about telling one of us if anyone touches her or makes her feel uncomfortable. Pedifiles are known to build trust with single women to get at their kids and since mom does not seem to have much common sense I worry. Taylor told me she knows she could come to us and would for sure if anyone hurt her.
Sorry for the rambling, I am just frustrated that she is having to have so much work done. She had a root canal last month.