dsparks
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Thats a great way to raise them.
we made our work for allowances and to help around the hosue with NO rewards of any kind, just becasue we are a family and help each other out without getting a reward.
Plus doing for others without them knowing it to learn how it feels to do soemthing for someone without being asked and to not be thanked but to know it was appreciated.
example. elderly neighbor goes to a doctor appointment so while they are gone you mow their grass, do some weeding and be done before they get home. Another neighbor is having a hard time financially, so we go to the store and buy groceries which kids can help pick out and while they were gone leave a couple bags of groceries on their porch for them without ever saying they did it.
Those are the best lessons for everyone to learn. I do believe they learned some valuable lessons from those experiences. Plus we have been on the receiving end too, so they know both sides of the situation.
See, there is room on the soap box for 2![]()
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as long as theirs NO plank to walk off the box.
You know my two really appreciate anything they do and get because they have to sacrifice in order to do. (I wouldn't recommend for anyone!) In order to cruise last year, the boys and I put all our birthday, Christmas money in for the vacation, they don't get an allowance--no extra money for that, they help around the house because their nana can't do a lot of it. No sob story just the way it is.