dutch_girl_scout
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OMG!!!
We have 2 8th graders in our family (and several in my GS troop) and while I don't even know this girl or her family, but I feel it's tooooooooooooooooooo much of an age difference. In most places, they aren't even in the same school group. I know how hard it is to be a single parent, but even if the boy is a "good guy" it just isn't right at that age. It opens up a can of worms. As for how to deal with it (say something or not), I can't answer that for you. It depends on the relationship you have with the mom/girl and especially the timing.
That's just it, the guy isn't a good guy. He graduated at the semester, she is at the Jr. High. I hardly know them at all, just had her in our troop one year when there wasn't a leader for that troop. She's not in GS anymore. We live in a small enough town that I'm almost sure the mom has to know but if it was my daughter and the whole town knew except me I would probably wish someone would've said something. I don't know what to do. Thanks for listening though.
I too think that Girl Scouts is a great program, anytime girls can get together in a controlled environment it's a good thing. Our troop has such a range of girls, and none of them are good friends at school but when they are together as a troop they have a great time and can listen and communicate with each other, and respect each other even if they disagree. Teenage girls can be nasty, that's one of the main reasons I'm homeschooling DD. She can focus on academics and not worry about what other people say, and she doesn't have to put up with all the drama.
Is it cookie time for you guys too? Our sale started on Saturday, I haven't got the form from our cookie mom yet, we still have cookies in the freezer from last year.
OK, I've taken up enough time and space on my thoughts for today. Anyone have positive things to talk about?