We celebrated our 10th anniversary at the Chef's table at V&A.
We are foodies (DH worked in the restaurant biz) and 9 1/2
years later it's still the meal we talk about the most. If you're
looking for romantic you can't beat V&A dinning room, it's quiet,
elegant and kid free. My third choice would be the wine room at Cal Grill
I felt the main dinning room was a little too open, if you're looking for romantic. Your best bet there is to book so that your meal is before or
after the fireworks, and plan to go out on the deck to watch them. We had our meal before then sat in the bar for a drink. Even though we took out wine
outside with us the bartender reserved our seats at the bar.