Hi Shooter, welcome aboard. There are LOTS of threads on this board about what to wear, but here's some short answers. Yes, you stick to the restaurant rotation on the "special" nights, so you may be going formal at say, Parrot Cay, and tropical at Lumiere's. I think that even if you go to Palo's on tropical night, jacket is suggested. If you have the dress-up duds for formal and informal nights, bring them. There have been posts about the percentage of tuxedos, dress suits, sports jackets, etc. that are seen on these nights, but I don't remember what they were. I don't think you are expected to buy a suit or rent a tux for your 8 yo, but a shirt, slacks, and tie would be appropriate. Seems the formal and informal night pictures of the family are everyone's favorite. And try to join us for lunch on Sunday! Diana