Beth~ Thank you for your post, it was the shot in the arm I needed today.
We see the oncologist tomorrow, it was the pulmonologist who found it, so I will know more tomorrow.
Thank you for the love and prayers!
~Amanda~
good luck Amanda and let us know how things are going.
Also, if you can, try to keep your husband away from reading about his illness on the internet.
It can be terribly distressing to read.
My sister never reads anything without having me read it first.
I'm her filter. If there aren't depressing statistics in it, i'll give her the go ahead to read it. If there's something i think she shouldn't read, i'll tell her to skip it. Or i'll summarize it for her without the superfluous negative info.
It helped her to not know too much, especially since it's not all true, and a lot of it is unnecessarily negative. So if it's possible for your husband to avoid that type of info, it might be helpful to him.
by the way, if you go onto the sloan kettering site (or at least back then when i went to read it), the very first line was, "you're not a statistic, so don't pay attention to them".
and one more thing, remember that there are new treatments being discovered all the time. So don't give up hope!!