Hi everyone. Sorry I haven't been on boards in a while. I had originally chosen to not say anything, but now I've decided to share. (Heidi, I'm sorry if you disagree with me.)
Tom moved out of our house two weeks ago. He says he's been unhappy for more than two years. He says he's seen a lawyer. Blew me completely out of the water.
The kids & I are hanging in there, but there have been so many ups & downs,

I can't make sense of any of it.
I have decided that I need to turn my focus away--so I'm going to focus on this vacation.
I have one huge decision to make. I have until Aug 3rd to cancel Tom's ressie with no penalty. I can also change the name for a $35 change fee. However, if the ship gets to a sold-out status (which could be at any time), I can't make any changes, no cancellations, no name changes. It's just treated as a no-show.
So the decision is, do I want to invite a friend to take Tom's place? Do I want to go just the three of us & meet you all on board? Do I want to hang on, with the hope that he'll change his mind? (65 days is a long time from now, in this scheme of things.)
I hope I didn't make anyone uncomfortable with all of this. But any input anyone is willing to share would be greatly appreciated. And we accept ALL prayers.
Thanks, Marianne