Good MORNING March 1st cruisers! (Pretend I sounded like Robin Williams --- but you've never heard my voice anyway, so for all you know I do....but I don't...but I don't sound like Minnie either!)
I am a little stressed about the prep and scheduling...but as it was pointed out to me, I LIKE stress and seek it out, so all is cool!
I updated the wardrobe a little this past week with a lot of sleeveless tops to cut down on packing (anywhere I can) and am soooo psyched!
Thanks to everyone for all their help every day -- and have a wonderful, chilly, not-too-long-till-the-cruise day!
Rani
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Hey Guys, Rani, I think Jen said it perfect. It really is not fair for us because most of us are working on third, fourth and even fifth cruises and this is your very first one and you are soooo excited. I remember that with our first one too. I actually even remember being very nervous as I wanted to make sure I knew everything. Since I am a control freak, I was really bad.....

I needed to make sure we were prepared and what to exspect. With two children with special needs, I am the overplanner. I got layouts of the ship and studied them, got navigators and even printed menus out ahaead of time. I call to get life jacket deminsions and needed to know if we loaded the boats, if they sounded a horn and the exact size of the bathrooms. I packed two months in advance and made list of list. We even took a nanny with us the first cruise $$$$$$$$$$$

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We have gone back a couple of times since then and have learned, the best advice we can give people is 1) do not overplan, the magic then can happen and 2)Know that you can not do everything as they do that on purpose for you to feel you have to keep coming back.
You will not get a true sense of the ship until you truly walk it.
DCL is smaller than the other cruiseships, you will see that when we are in port next to the others and everything is truly right there. I tell people not to study Navigators, just wait to see them. I always travel with people whom have never gone before and tell them, the night prior to the cruise, I will go over a navigator with them just to show them how to read it and once you know and understand that, you are set for the trip.
I even tell Mike, (which he is probably sick of hearing me saying it), I think the DIS is stressful for 1st time cruisers because you get more confused as you read some of the threads. You feel like some of the things are must dos and they are really only a few DISers on the ship whom do it. (ie, door signs, fish extenders, pirate gear, pillowcases). Just think if every passenger brought something on the ship for them to sign, they would need four crew members in the back doing nothing but autographs full time. Just think of the people on the boards whom bring 6 and 7 and they are not even traveling with kids

. Now this cruise we are doing some of it as we just got really involved this cruise with the DIS, plus we want a little suprise and variety, but not everything. We do not do over the door hangers for our family because the space between the door and the bathroom door is so small it would get in the way (you have seen pictures of us). My DH actually thinks it is a little scary to have the kids names on the door, because of strangers calling them by name. I am not this bad though. So I have another Diser doing door signs for me.
We have not stressed out about anything last cruises and still will have the time of our lives. As I told you, we just paid them Dec. 17th. We just booked Palo brunch that day as well even though I could have at 90 days out. I went on day 72 (3 days after the window opened) and added dinner and still got it, (figured it is just as easy to cancel later) and we just got our air. If I havd listened to what is said I would have been sitting in front of the computer at 11PM on night 91. I just have never encountered a problem with getting anything and it always just comes to be.
I sometimes on the cruise hear people with qripes. They are always the people whom are saying, we planned for this and now this is being done at this time and now this. That is because everything changes all the time. This is the reason you can not get the next days navigator until 6pm the night prior. Last cruise, they delayed our lifeboat drill for 40 minutes because the space shuttle was suppose to go off and they wanted us to be able to watch it. Well, that shuttle never lifted off.

Then Rachel, the cruise director came on and said we will not be starting the sail away party or the life boat drill then either because we were waiting for 3 DCL buses that were caught in traffic thanks to the shuttle's traffic jam. So we waited for them.
All you truly HAVE to have is your family, passports, documentation, an ID for each adult and do not forget the credit card. At least two outfits for dinner each. At least two casual wear each, tennis shoes as well as an alternative pair, toliet items, sun screen, PJs and swimwear and you will be fine. Now, is this all you pack, of course not. But it is the only thing you could not get along without on the ship. I hope this helps. So, relax, just get to the ship and have the time of your life.........

The element of suprise is what makes it soooo magical.

The less I knew, the more tears I shed, but those happy tears, the ones that I look at my children and say, this was worth every extra day of call and every pregnant hormonal woman I had to deal with. (SHHHHHH, do not tell my patients I said that.) Oh a good thing to compare. The women whom seem to be most disappointed with their labor are the first time moms whom come in with these long birthplans and things go differently from the plan. Just a little thought........
So, I am sure to you, it seems that we are a little not so planful, the truth is, we know it all comes together and not to stress over it. When I first came to this thread of Disers, I use to say, they sure do not do a lot and later found myself so thankful for this bunch as they have been my sanity on the boards. I told my DH, we could not change our sail date, because this was he most sane group of Disney addicts I have been with and I want to cruise with them. I've peek in on some of the other threads
Now the only thing that would make it complete is for Johnna to comeback

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Does this helps or does this make it worst? We are always willing to answer your questions and hope that we are helping, not making you more confused.

ya.....