amomma23
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- Apr 24, 2012
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When someone wants to pay for my vacations, they get a say. Until then, it is absolutely NONE of their business TYVM. My life and finances are handled... nobody needs to give their unsolicited opinion. They do anyway, but they get shut down quickly. I don't owe an explanation. And on the flipside, I try to remember I can't control what other people think and as long as I am feeling good about our decisions I really can't be worrying about what other people think.![]()
Well said. We get all kinds of grief. DH is a teacher and I stay at home with our kids. People are constantly commenting about how we can afford to go. It is our ONE splurge. I clip coupons and shop clearance sales for our necessities. I babysit for a friend a few days a week. Every other financial decision we make is so that we can go to Disney. If they can't figure it out, that's not my problem.