Hi Aimee, we go to CG every trip. I think "swarming" with kids is definitely an overstatement. Yes, there are some kids there, but every time I have been, (adults only and with children trips) with one exception, those kids were well behaved. I have certainly seen some things that would be odd in other locations...I remember a table with well dressed adults, and all the kids in their PJs! But, you know what? Those PJ clad kids were quiet and well behaved, so...
I think there is a segment of Disney folks who find any children in signature restaurants annoying. Some people think of CG as a "romantic" place to dine...I know I've seen a handful of proposals there. Here is the thing, though, at least from my "childfree by choice" perspective: it's Disney! There are kids everywhere! (until Disney builds that adults only resort that would be really, really popular!
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But only the well-behaved ones get to eat at the California Grill.
Truthfully, one time we were at V+A's and there were kids there too! They were in the private dining room, but they were SCREECHING! You could hear them through the whole place. It was a wedding party, and I am sure they were overtired. But when you are paying those prices...
I love Disney, and I love lots of other places too! If I want completely kidfree I go elsewhere for my vacation.
Finally, some of the worst behavior I have seen at CG is from adults! Whether overly intoxicated folks, to inappropriately dressed for the spot folks, to completely rude people coming from elsewhere in the restaurant to stand in front of the front tier of seated tables to watch the fireworks instead of going outside to the deck...I could go on forever!
Anyway, um.... the food is good. You should go!