BuckeyeBama
You are stronger than you think.
- Joined
- May 29, 2013
You have "veto" rights in your family? Neither my wife nor I have veto rights over anything that the other suggests. We have the right to express our opinion, but we do not draw lines in the sand or make demands. We make decisions together. We each try to push the agenda of the other - putting them ahead of ourselves. And we still go on separate vacations every few years because our schedules don't always allow us to do otherwise.If my husband discussed vacation plans with our children before me, even on a "what if" basis, I'd absolutely veto that vacation idea.
OP, I think you knew this was a bad idea before you even asked here.
I would not have discussed something like this with my boys before my wife, but I know that every marriage is different. I won't criticize him for his methods because they may be exactly what works in his marriage. How the heck would I know?