mom2AidanAndEli
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- Apr 19, 2013
Maybe its because my spouse owned his own business so i know first hand that sometimes schedules don't align, so no I don't think of it as selfish if my husband and kids planned a vacation when I couldn't go.
I guess im not the type of person who would get mad because my husband is having a good time and I had obligations.
Like I said sounds selfish and more like grade school basketball. " it's my ball and if I can't play I'm taking it and going home".
2) Is she NEVER going with them??? one time not going to a theme park translates to not sticking with them??? lol, he's not leaving her to have chemotherapy by herself.
Hopefully my kids saw our example and will follow it, lol. I would never whine or throw a hissy fit because I got stuck at work and thankfully neither would he.
My notes weren't to the OP, but to your comments. They seemed very one-sided and I was pointing out there's two sides to the story! You see it as the wife being selfish. I see it could be the husband not taking the wife's feelings into account.