Lisa loves Pooh
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- Apr 18, 2004
grlpwrd said:Yes, I think we're only hearing one side of the situation and I get the vibe that there's a lot of issues between the SIL/family and the OP.
I was just curious and peeked at some older posts by the OP. Apparently, she is sending her dd to overnight camp, has different ING accounts, flew to FL, and spent $$$ on different WDW dining experiences. Sure doesn't sound like they are really strapped for cash.
I can understand the principle of it all and that there may be issues, but an 80yo woman shouldn't be "punished" for it. Celebrate her life!
So what is your point.
By my ticker--you would probably assume things. It is best not to assume.
WE have budgets and if someone plans a big fluffy event and then tells noone except come bill time--well, as I said before--unless telepathy is a dominating gene in the family.....
It is poor manners to do this.
What is it they say about weddings--do what you can afford...
Same is for any party that one hosts regardless of the circumstance. If you plan it yourself and asks for contributions after the fact--it is tacky.
(And yes we would probably give the $200--but heck...the $$$ is not the point).