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- Feb 28, 2004
I'm curious......
How many of you feel it's ok to invade your kids privacy - looking at their phone, going through their room, reading a private diary etc.?
How many of you feel you should never ever go through your kids private things?
I look at my kids phones all the time.
I've always told them that I pay for the phone and I pay for the plan so their phone is simply theirs to borrow.
I also know my kids social media passwords and I go on them once in awhile to see what they are doing.
Luckily, I've never seen negative posts from them, but you should see what some of their friends post - it's UNBELIEVABLE!!! The things these people call their parents is shocking!!! One year I took my DD's phone away, for a punishment and I went through her facebook friends and started deleting tons of kids. She had so many friends, that she never knew I deleted them. Some of these kids were TOXIC!!!
I've never had a reason to search their rooms for anything - I've never felt they were hiding drugs or anything illegal.
I've never had a reason to read a diary, but I haven't found one since I don't search their rooms.
Obviously every situation is different.
If I thought my DD was hiding drugs in the house, than I would have no problem searching her room.
Parenting is so hard!!
How many of you feel it's ok to invade your kids privacy - looking at their phone, going through their room, reading a private diary etc.?
How many of you feel you should never ever go through your kids private things?
I look at my kids phones all the time.
I've always told them that I pay for the phone and I pay for the plan so their phone is simply theirs to borrow.
I also know my kids social media passwords and I go on them once in awhile to see what they are doing.
Luckily, I've never seen negative posts from them, but you should see what some of their friends post - it's UNBELIEVABLE!!! The things these people call their parents is shocking!!! One year I took my DD's phone away, for a punishment and I went through her facebook friends and started deleting tons of kids. She had so many friends, that she never knew I deleted them. Some of these kids were TOXIC!!!
I've never had a reason to search their rooms for anything - I've never felt they were hiding drugs or anything illegal.
I've never had a reason to read a diary, but I haven't found one since I don't search their rooms.
Obviously every situation is different.
If I thought my DD was hiding drugs in the house, than I would have no problem searching her room.
Parenting is so hard!!
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