RedSox68
Retired 2021 -- All the Time to Travel Now!
- Joined
- Mar 16, 2009
We plan on doing a family Palo dinner and will probably end up doing several lunches and excursions together.
Unfortunately I can totally relate -- but it wasn't my beloved in-laws that ruined every outing and dinner, it was my mother. She found misery in every single thing we did and it ruined many celebrations, birthdays and anniversaries. As the years went by, we just stopped inviting her and found peace!
My suggestions: Don't do a family Palo dinner -- do a family Palo brunch. The dinner is more intimate and romantic and would be a great thing for you and your husband. The brunch is more casual and bright and wouldn't be as "intrusive".
As for other dinners, if you are doing a 7-night, you'd only have to have 5 dinners if you do Remy and Palo two other nights. You can even just spend one night in Cabanas which is more free or just go upon deck and do the food windows and sit outside. It would give you a little more freedom to get up and walk around if you feel yourself about ready to blow (good excuses: oh, I want to get some pictures; want to get more food; want to go see what that is over there ).
Good luck.