MrsScooby
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- May 27, 2002
Our CM on the Wonder in January of 2010 was horrible when my children got sick, but that's a story for another time.
I couldn't care less about compassion for Mom (well, I do but that isn't what really concerns me), what mystifies me is that the CMs were "stumped" about why they couldn't find him. That should have lasted about 2 minutes before alarm bells sounded (figuratively speaking). These are kids we're talking about and they do tend to wander off into places they shouldn't go and 3 year olds do crawl into corners and go to sleep; why in heaven's name don't those CMs know every nook and cranny of the spaces they are assigned to?!?!?
Plus, again, why didn't they know where that child was for over an hour? That club ranges in age from 3-12; it isn't outside the realm of possibility that an older child could have hurt a younger child and "hidden" them in an corner somewhere. Horrible thought, but let's face it, we don't have rules/regulations/policies/procedures to protect us from the good stuff.
Look, like I've said before I am unfortunately familiar with the total panic that comes when your young child goes missing. I was in a Home Depot aisle with my son between my DH and me. I just panicked when I realized he was gone. Running up and down the aisles and running to customer service so they could lock down and search for my child. it seemed like FOREVER.
My DH was scared too but kept his head, realized there was no way my DS could have gone far without us seeing him go and kept walking up and down the aisle calling his name. eventually he heard a giggle and found my son hiding behind a box on the lowest shelf.
In retrospect, it seemed obvious that that was where he would be. But it is possible to miss the obvious when you panic.
It also is easy to overestimate the time that a child is missing because you do go into child hunting mode like the Dad in this situation said.
As for another child hurting a younger one...don't you think the younger child would have cried out if he was hurt??? My younger siblings would get real loud in attempts to get me in trouble with my parents so I think the older child hurting and stashing the body of a younger child without anyone noticing is very unlikely.
FTR, I'd be mad too if a CM was unkind to you when your kids were sick. Hope you put their name on a comment card so DCL was informed.