Lachesis00
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I love these stories!
I will never for get 2008. I lost my Gram on Jan 8th, and my mom on December 18th. I live in Arizona, but I am so very lucky I was able to fly home to Alaska before each passed.
My Grandma we thought we were going to loose her and so I got an emergency flight home on January 26th. She hung on and got better until January 8th. I was able to spend every other evening, all night to hold her hand and just talk to her (even though she couldn't talk back). We were suppose to be on shifts (a pretty good size extended family).
Later, the nurses commented to someone, one of my Aunts about how they were so glad Irene had a granddaughter sitting with her. I was very attentive and refused to sleep. My aunt from... well, lets just say she is my least favorite aunt, thought it was my cousin. She argued with the nurse, saying it must have been my cousin. I have some very distinctive body features and she described them to my aunt.
I later found out NO one sat with my Gram every other night I wasn't. I am still kind of mad about it.
However I am blessed my then 15 year old watched his baby brother (who was 7 months old) so I could sit with my Grandma every other night. It really is cherished time to me, and meant the world.
I got a call last year on December 17th saying my sister was following the ambulance to the ER with my mom. I asked her how serious it was. No one thought it was, she had been sick with what we thought was the flu.
I got an almost direct flight out on December 18th, just in case. Her progress was going up and down, no one could for sure give me any answers. I am so lucky I got home when I did. I got in around 1pm, they flew my mom to Seattle. She passed at midnght Seattle time.
While my mom was at home in the hospital, I whispered in her ear, I hoped I could be 1/2 the mom she was. My dad saw/heard me and started bawling. This is a man who is normally non-emotional in that way.
On a good note. My mom met both of my younger kids. We were able to spend July-end of November in Alaska. And I fulfilled my Grandma's wish of 17 years. Naming my daughter she never met, after my 2 great-grandmas.
She wanted me to name my oldest (who was a boy) the name if he was a girl. She'd remind me ever so often. She is my mom's only granddaughter.
Christmas and New Years will never be the same. This year is especially hard as it is the first of many with out my mom.
And a favorite memory... a year or so before my wedding. My Gram asked me what we'd like. For a whole year (on and off) she worked on a 20 recipe (I know, not a *lot*) cookbook of her recipes. I am the only one who has *her* recipes in her handwriting, and it means so much to me. OK I am not the only one. I scanned them in and sent them to my cousins.
We were married December 31, 1994. I treasure that cookbook.
I will never for get 2008. I lost my Gram on Jan 8th, and my mom on December 18th. I live in Arizona, but I am so very lucky I was able to fly home to Alaska before each passed.
My Grandma we thought we were going to loose her and so I got an emergency flight home on January 26th. She hung on and got better until January 8th. I was able to spend every other evening, all night to hold her hand and just talk to her (even though she couldn't talk back). We were suppose to be on shifts (a pretty good size extended family).
Later, the nurses commented to someone, one of my Aunts about how they were so glad Irene had a granddaughter sitting with her. I was very attentive and refused to sleep. My aunt from... well, lets just say she is my least favorite aunt, thought it was my cousin. She argued with the nurse, saying it must have been my cousin. I have some very distinctive body features and she described them to my aunt.
I later found out NO one sat with my Gram every other night I wasn't. I am still kind of mad about it.

I got a call last year on December 17th saying my sister was following the ambulance to the ER with my mom. I asked her how serious it was. No one thought it was, she had been sick with what we thought was the flu.
I got an almost direct flight out on December 18th, just in case. Her progress was going up and down, no one could for sure give me any answers. I am so lucky I got home when I did. I got in around 1pm, they flew my mom to Seattle. She passed at midnght Seattle time.
While my mom was at home in the hospital, I whispered in her ear, I hoped I could be 1/2 the mom she was. My dad saw/heard me and started bawling. This is a man who is normally non-emotional in that way.
On a good note. My mom met both of my younger kids. We were able to spend July-end of November in Alaska. And I fulfilled my Grandma's wish of 17 years. Naming my daughter she never met, after my 2 great-grandmas.
She wanted me to name my oldest (who was a boy) the name if he was a girl. She'd remind me ever so often. She is my mom's only granddaughter.
Christmas and New Years will never be the same. This year is especially hard as it is the first of many with out my mom.

And a favorite memory... a year or so before my wedding. My Gram asked me what we'd like. For a whole year (on and off) she worked on a 20 recipe (I know, not a *lot*) cookbook of her recipes. I am the only one who has *her* recipes in her handwriting, and it means so much to me. OK I am not the only one. I scanned them in and sent them to my cousins.
