Yecats, Pre-Trip Report, unusual life.

yecats

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Hi to all,

Time to share: I have had a very unusal life lately. At the beginning of the year, I started thinking of returning to Disney (after a 10 Day WDW/US trip) and began to make plans for May. Well my family decided to do a beach vacation in May and I decided to go. The vacation started off well enough but went downhill by the end of the week and fighting occurred with extended family which just cast a black cloud over everything which seems to have lasted for months. Needless to say, I came home from that vacation with the idea that I was going to Disney alone.

The month of June eventually arrived and those darn Disney FTP commercials were playing all the time. I finally decided to call to determine what cost I would have to endure for a Disney vacation. Low and behold it was a vacation that I could actually afford (trust me I was shocked). Out came my credit card, plans made and deposits paid.

Then the last two weeks of June occurred. This turned out to be a horrible month (which by the way, it rained every day this entire month). A call came in one Saturday morning. It was my grandmother (otherwise known as Maw-maw - yes I'm a southern gal) she had fallen and couldn't get up (no joke)! Run over to her house (I live a short distance away) to find her on the floor in pain. It seemed that she had broken her 2nd hip replacement. Well I have never seen so many doctors in my life until this moment (every possible doc came out of the woodwork in the hospital). My mawmaw managed to break a hip that was unbreakable and word spread like wildfire in California around the hospital (her x-rays were more popular to look at than Finding Nemo, literally classes were given with 40/50 people at a time showing those x-rays of my mawmaws broken hip). The doctors didn't know exactly how to remove the former prosthesis as it grows into the bone over time. They actually had to study how to do this and order special equipment which was flown in overnight. Luckily mawmaw managed through the surgery and was placed in a recovery unit for a month. Thank GOD that she is okay.

The very next day after my mawmaws surgery, I managed to get into an accident. The adjusters are still working out the issues.

Now we proceed to the last few days of June. I decided that I needed to get past my amazement of the things that happened in June so far, so I ordered my non-refundable airline ticket (what was I really thinking) to Disney. The very next day, the firm that I work for had a coup. Some of the partners decided to start their own firm and everything at work came to a head that day. All of a sudden my job was in jeopardy. Now I was truly depressed. Several of the employees I worked with for years were either laid off or due to the stress of not knowing what was going to happen, went and located other jobs. We went from an office of about 20 people to 10 in a 6 week period. July and August (which by the way, rain continued almost daily) I found myself in a state of denial and depression. I can't state how I really felt as everything from this year seemed to culminate at this time. There were many times where I thought that I would have to cancel my trip but kept thinking to hold on as the last payment wasn't due until the end of Sept.

Mid August. I woke up one morning and literally decided it was time to stop sulking (especially since it was one of the actual days we got to see the sun and it didn't rain) and it was time to plan my Disney vacation and wish for the best. I began to do just that. This is the important part. Part of what managed to get me out of my depression was that I would come on these boards and read various threads and trip reports and dream of how my vacation would go. THANKS to all of you Disser's, as you helped me get out of my duldrums. Many of the trip reports managed to make me laugh and giggle (and reminded me of some of my own past Disney moments) when I was feeling my worst.

Sept came and I decided to take the vacation a notch up and add on days before and after the FTP just to do shopping and relaxing. People at Southwest Airlines must think I'm nuts as I kept changing my departure and arrival times and dates. Crazily enough, I also decided to pack (tell me if I am not wishing this trip into existence) about half of what I intend to take with me.

Oct. - Well things are still continuing to change at work which has been very stressful for the past two weeks (it got to the point where I informed them that if things didn't change, then I would have to quit as it is beginning to take a toll on me). Tomorrow I will attend my 5th funeral this year (3 relatives who died suddenly and 2 neighbors). Tomorrows funeral is a cousin who will be missed.

Literally, I can take no more. I have a fear that these next two weeks will feel like a year and the 10 days of my next Disney trip will feel like only one day there compared to the rest of the year.

I truly wanted to say thank you to all of those that have shared their experiences, I've enjoyed reading them. I will attempt to type trip reports after I return and can only hope to make others smile or laugh. Disney is literally the one dream that I need and will achieve. Just wanted to share.
 
I truly hope that this vacation marks a new episode in your life. All the best and I look forward to reading about a wonderful trip had by you.
 
Yecats,

Wow! You have been threw alot. You must be a very strong person. I am very sorry for troubles.

I know you will have a wonderful time on your trip. It good to have a reality-break.

:hug:

I hope you feel better and things start looking up for you.
 
I hope you have the Daddy of all holidays!!! You really deserve a heap of pixie dust.

I hope that things turn around for you at work as there is nothing worse..... be sure that you are happy....I found myself in a similar position last year and it DID affect my health, that's when I called a halt and I now work from home, self employed and it is fantastic!!!! My quality of life is brilliant and I get to catch up on the boards during the day!!!! yaaaaayyyyy!!

Have a ball, and I'm looking forward to hearing about it on your return

Val
xx

DDM :crazy:
 

Yecats,
I hope you have a wonderful time!

Pixie dust :Pinkbounc :Pinkbounc :Pinkbounc :Pinkbounc


I can feel your pain. I am having a terrible time lately too and I literally got thru yesterday thinking in one month I will be in Disney the happiest place of all where people are NICE to you!!!
Hoping to come back from the magic with a new perspective and attitude.

Enjoy your much deserved vacation!
 
Pixie dust to you.:bounce:

As soon as you get there, relax and enjoy. You'll see how easily the magic comes to you. I'm sure it will be a memorable trip.

I'll be looking for your trip reports. Have a great time! You know you deserve it! ::yes::
 
:wizard: :wizard: :wizard: PD for a great trip, great weather, low crowds, lots of magic, and good shopping!! It sounds like you deserve it!!
 
Have fun, be happy, and come back safe and rested. You go girl! You deserve the best trip ever.
Byrd
:teacher: :teacher: :teacher: :teacher: :teacher: :teacher: :teacher:
 
Just think what a strong person you are to get through all this. I am gald that your mawmaw is much better.:) Have a great time at the Mouses' house!:sunny:
 
Thank you for all of your replys and spreading the pixie dust. Like Delswife, having 55,000 friends can really be a help.

To Delswife, truly thank you for sharing your life. The best part of all of your trip reports (IMHO) was when your brother presented you with those 2 pins in rememberance of past family memories. It was one of the most touching things I've read. When your brother dumps Lucifer, please mention that I am available and love disney (meaning, I ride the rides and am not a big shopper and am a Nascar fan. Lastly, even though I'm from the South, I've been told that I don't have an accent that needs an interpreter, most people think I'm from the midwest) ;) .

To Disney daft dad, one day I am making it to Scotland just to sleep in one of those ole drafty castles just for the experience. I wish I could be so lucky to be able to work for myself at home but I can always dream and certainly look for the opportunity for same in the future. Now if I can just come up with that million dollar opportunity that I can sell in an infomercial.

To First Mickey. Oh I can relate. I have had those days that last forever and all you can hold onto is that Disney date. I do not know if you practice a religion and I certainly hope that you won't get upset if I include you in my prayers (of course you will be known as First Mickey but I think he will know who you are). I truly hope that your life becomes easier and all your problems resolve themselves. Never forget, your not in that sinking boat alone. Also, every day that goes by is one day closer to your Disney trip. I wish to you what Corky805 wished for me and I hope that you get your own chance to wish it on someone else to.:teeth: Pixie Dust to you.

Thank you all so much :sunny:.
 





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