I tend to not buy for myself until I just have to buy for myself. My partner is a huge clothing and label fiend, but in the past year has reeled it in quite a bit with the move revealing that she had about 4 times as many clothes as anyone really needs. In her defense, to an extent anyway, she was traveling for business week after week, so her business attire stockpile was huge, so that she could pack up her 4 clothing suitcases just once a month and be done with it. I am proud of the fact that she is going through her wardrobe and sending off box after box to Goodwill. We still have a dozen boxes of clothes that have not come out of storage over the past year. We still need to go through those and most of that will go to Goodwill too.
We also became caregivers to our great niece in the past year. She was in a size 9 month this time last year and is just now settling into a size 24 mo/2T. Being that we have to send her for visitation to see her mother and her father on occasion, we know that the clothes that we send her with, typically do not end up coming back to us, so I have been working the clearance deals hard to keep her in nice, but really cheap clothing for those visits. I am also super picky about what I put on her in the way of design. I refuse to put her in clothing with any wording that is remotely smart assy, anything that is blatantly advertising, anything with unhealthy food items on it, or anything with images of girls that promote an unhealthy body image. Yes, I am that parental unit.
With that said, I will say that in the past year, I have more than likely spent over $1000 in clothing for her. I think that was really freakin' good considering that we went through size 12 mo, 18 mo, and 24 mo/2T purchases during that time. None of the clothing that I bought was second hand. I am new to the area down here in Florida and am still trying to figure out where to go to find "good" children's consignment clothing. In Georgia, I know exactly where to go, but Florida has proved to be a bit of a challenge in the whole children's clothing dept. I have had to rely heavily on the internet for finding clothing that I feel is appropriate for the little one. I have a friend who had a baby last year and she is loving the "hand me overs" as she calls them. The clothing has all held up well and looks new even after plenty of wear and world exploration on the part of my little one.
These are the places that the majority of her wardrobe has come and is coming from.
http://thechildrenswearoutlet.com/ <- Seriously nice quality clothes for CHEAP!
Amazing Clearance Deals
http://www.belk.com/
http://www.macys.com/
http://www.jcpenney.com/
http://www.dillards.com
http://www.sears.com
http://www.kohls.com/kohlsStore/kids.jsp
Nicer stuff in general, but not always cheap. You have to work for a deal.
http://www.oshkoshbgosh.com/
http://www.gymboree.com/
http://www.hartstrings.com/index.cfm
http://oldnavy.gap.com/
http://www.childrensplace.com
http://www.ae.com/77kids/index.jsp
Cheap, cheap, cheap, and did I mention cheap, but the quality isn't always there.
http://www.beallsflorida.com/
http://www.target.com/
http://www.walmart.com/
Honestly, the majority of the clothing that I tend to purchase is bought a size or two, depending on the deals, of where she is at. I buy a lot of very basic pieces and that tends to allow a very cute shirt from one store to work well with a cute pair of pants/shorts from another and no one would have a clue that it was pieced together and wasn't meant to be an outfit off the rack. I love to put her in pretty dresses. She has a closet full of dresses for the spring that I can't wait to start putting her into. She is a girly girl and a tom boy all at the same time. You should see her in her coveralls and hiking boots.
I am currently running on a tight budget until my car is paid off in another 4 or 5 months. Once that happens, I will start buying more for her again. Currently, I am only allowing myself $40 a month to buy for her. I am focusing on size 3T stuff right now. I am trying not to go too crazy. Her custody situation is always a challenge due to the drama that her parents bring to it. We just continue to love her, provide a safe place where she knows that she is always safe, loved and wanted, and attempt to focus on the magic that each day holds without dwelling on the uncertainty that her biologicals continue to cloud the thoughts of the future with.