Wwyd

[crashbb]

Since she's been there for months at this point, she might have a legal right to stay until she's actually been evicted. That hopefully won't be a problem since the OP said she was given notice she has to be out by this Wednesday, but if she doesn't leave then the OP or her mother will have to find out if they can legally kick her out or if they have to officially give her notice that she's being evicted and then wait however long they legally have to wait. After that they can just kick her out and change the locks and be done with her.

OP, will she be out by Wednesday as she was told she had to be?

Does the fact that OP also doesn't pay any rent, complicate things? I mean, can the OP really kick anyone out? I would assume that the OP's mother (who pays the rent) would have to do it. I suspect, given the OP's track record, nothing official (or in writing) was done.

 

[Scurvy]

Does the fact that OP also doesn't pay any rent, complicate things? I mean, can the OP really kick anyone out? I would assume that the OP's mother (who pays the rent) would have to do it. I suspect, given the OP's track record, nothing official (or in writing) was done.

I think you're right. It does sound like the OP and her roommate are both staying there because the OP's mother is letting them, and neither one is on the lease or paying rent. If that's the case then they are basically equals and neither one can kick the other out. That means both will be there until one decides to move or the mom kicks one of them out, and I don't think either of those things will happen any time soon.

 

[LovableGluttons]

If I was OP's mother, I would quietly look for a new place to live, not tell anyone except the landlord. Then let the OP and everyone else to figure out how to pay the bills instead of getting a handout.

 

[DawnM]

Oh, I guess I missed something in the thread.

Dawn

I may be misunderstanding this whole situation, but if I am reading this thread correctly, it looks like the OP is also living there for free; therefore, I don't think she's in a position to kick anyone out. If this is the case, I would agree with others that say, OP, you may want to consider getting you own place. This way, you have a say in who you live with.

 

[crashbb]

Oh, I guess I missed something in the thread.

Dawn

I think these are the bits you missed:

Point taken however my mom pays the rent and my mom will not allow me to change the lock so I am stuck wow 7 monthes has passed. The only good thing is that they are finaly getting off ther *** and job hunting. It just anoys me that they wanted so long

So your mom is forcing you take in a homeless person?

I really do not understand your situation.

I thought your mom lived elsewhere?

she does however she pays the rent for my DFi and I so we can just focus on our studies

 

[DawnM]

Thank you.

Ok, now I don't understand why the Mom allows this!

If I were paying my child's rent, there would be stipulations involved.....

And what does DFi mean?

Dawn

I think these are the bits you missed:

 

[Magic Mom]

Does the fact that OP also doesn't pay any rent, complicate things? I mean, can the OP really kick anyone out? I would assume that the OP's mother (who pays the rent) would have to do it. I suspect, given the OP's track record, nothing official (or in writing) was done.

Exactly. The OP can't kick anyone out, because technically it's the OP's mother's apartment. I agree with the other poster that thinks the mother should be the one to move out and let the rest figure out how to pay their own rent.

 

[crashbb]

Exactly. The OP can't kick anyone out, because technically it's the OP's mother's apartment. I agree with the other poster that thinks the mother should be the one to move out and let the rest figure out how to pay their own rent.

Mom doesn't live there - just pays the rent.

 

[cats7494]

Seriously?!? This is still going on? I can't believe that you have not either...
1. Asked your mother to kick her out (since you are not paying rent either)
OR
2. Moved out and paid your own way!

This whole situation is ridiculous! I would not put up with someone being mean to my animals or telling me what to do. Sounds like you and your fiance need to be more independent.

 

[tinkerbellandeyor]

Dfi and I are doing the happy dance my mom is taking them to a hotel Wednesday night

 

[tinkerbellandeyor]

the roommates are leaving at some point tomorrow

 

[SaraJayne]

LOL Don't count on it. They were also (according to you) being taken to a hotel a week and a half ago. I see that didn't happen.

 

[tinkerbellandeyor]

LOL Don't count on it. They were also (according to you) being taken to a hotel a week and a half ago. I see that didn't happen.

My mom made the official announcement they are staying at a friends house then at my moms then there own apartment

 

[Magic Mom]

My mom made the official announcement they are staying at a friends house then at my moms then there own apartment

That's good. They a should be paying their own rent.

 

[Disneyadore]

My mom made the official announcement they are staying at a friends house then at my moms then there own apartment

Well sorry to say so but your mom is only feeding there "mooching" behavior.
First the friend has to cope with them and I'll bet a small fortune they will either end up living with your mom but I suspect they will be back at your place in a few weeks.

 

[3 MEN AND A BOAT]

I remember reading this months ago and thinking it was ridiculous.

but now even if she moves out I would still get my own place. I couldn't live anywhere that I had no say in who lives with me.

its time to grow up and put on your big girl panties.

Paul

 

[tinkerbellandeyor]

I remember reading this months ago and thinking it was ridiculous.

but now even if she moves out I would still get my own place. I couldn't live anywhere that I had no say in who lives with me.

its time to grow up and put on your big girl panties.

Paul

I am only 3 classes away from graduating and getting a job and paying my own bills there for I will be the one that has a say in who stays with me however i am taking the summer off so i can focus on the wedding

 

[hambirg]

I am only 3 classes away from graduating and getting a job and paying my own bills there for I will be the one that has a say in who stays with me however i am taking the summer off so i can focus on the wedding

Wow. . just wow. . .speechless. . .really.

 

[Magic Mom]

I am only 3 classes away from graduating and getting a job and paying my own bills there for I will be the one that has a say in who stays with me however i am taking the summer off so i can focus on the wedding

Are you adding up everything your mom is paying so you can pay her back?

 

[horseshowmom]

Well sorry to say so but your mom is only feeding there "mooching" behavior.
First the friend has to cope with them and I'll bet a small fortune they will either end up living with your mom but I suspect they will be back at your place in a few weeks.

I remember reading this months ago and thinking it was ridiculous.

but now even if she moves out I would still get my own place. I couldn't live anywhere that I had no say in who lives with me.

its time to grow up and put on your big girl panties.

Paul

I agree. My daughter and her husband live in a rental house that his parents own. She's in her last year of pharmacy school, and when they got married, his parents offered them their choice of the two rental houses that they own. DD and DSiL put $4000 of their own money into renovating the house.

I can promise you that there is NO way they would deal with anything like this. If they were told that they had to let someone live with them, they would move out. It would be very difficult since they have to live on one salary, but they wouldn't deal with any of this madness.

I doubt very seriously that your mother will put up with them long. Where they'll go then - , but I wouldn't be surprised to see them back with you unless you make some choices on your own.