I appreciate all the advice. I am not sure what we are going to do yet. We still haven't heard from the insurance company.
I will have to ask around to see if there are any cheaper body shops that someone could recommend. I never thought about letting them total the car and then fixing it on our own if possible. We are NOT car people, so DH wouldn't be able to do the work himself, but maybe a friend of a friend type situation...we'll have to check that out.
We do definitely need two cars due to work. Also, DH used to have a long commute for work so I had to limit my job search to a small geographic area due to our DS and daycare considerations. Now that DH no longer has that commute, I can broaden my search significantly. I really think I will get something in my field within the next few months...I am working with two recruiters and have had several interviews since I expanded my search 6 weeks ago.
I really wish I had a crystal ball though, because if I do get a position I will most likely have a decent commute which means I would need a reliable car (and the Escape takes too much gas to consider as a "commute car"). I know buying a $4000 car and having no car payment makes the most financial sense, but the repair risks of that really scare me. Ugh...I just can't believe this is happening now....15 years and not a single accident for either of us and now it happens at the worst possible time