Would you press charges against... UPDATE 11/4!

Tinker'n'Fun

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a 16yo who stole your camera ($400.00 value) from a party your child was at?

DD had our camera stolen and it has miraculously appeared at a not so close friends house who was at the party. The detective will be going there today or tomorrow to identify it. I need to know if I should press charges. WWYD?
 

I should update my original post... I want to press charges, rest of the family does not. The camera is mine though so I get the final say.
 
I would press charges.....at 16 you may be doing the kid a favor....may scare him/her enough to not do something like that again.
 
I would definitely press charges. This is probably not the first time this type of thing has happened with this teen. And if you let it go, it will likely not be the last. Teach him/her a lesson that his/her parents have obviously not been able to teach. That there are consequences to our actions.
 
I would absolutely press charges. You're 16, you know it's stealing and there are consequences.
 
I definitely would. A 16 year old is well old enough to know what they're doing when taking something like that. I agree with others that maybe it will knock some sense into the kid and they won't end up doing something like it again.
 
I would too. This may be the thing that turns this teenager's life around.
 
Absolutely!!!!They stopped being your friend when they STOLE YOUR STUFF!
Press charges, that kid needs to learn a lesson. ANd they will prob just get sentenced to community service, so you are helping your community. lol.
 
I would just get my camera back. If I need to press charges to do that, so be it. Otherwise, I would not press charges.
 
If he was willing to give it back and do some kind of work to repay me for my trouble, no I wouldn't. If he wasn't willing to accept the consequences I gave, yes I would. He has to learn somehow. It would definitely be more about him than me.
 
I would definitely press charges. This is probably not the first time this type of thing has happened with this teen. And if you let it go, it will likely not be the last. Teach him/her a lesson that his/her parents have obviously not been able to teach. That there are consequences to our actions.

My thoughts exactly!
 
I'm impressed that a detective is actually going to ID the camera. The police in many communities would not bother with it.
 
we had a kid (14 or 15 at the time) walk into our house while we were on a bike ride. We left the garage door open, didn't have the keypad at the time, just rode around block and school and back, gone 15-20 minutes max. He walked in our door, stole money from my youngest, psp with games and ipod from middle son (he paid for his own ipod), phone and money from oldest and a family heirloom (platinum & diamond watch that was my ggm's, given to her by my ggf). This was not his first time, nor his last. We called police before we knew it was him. Oldest son was camping and when he came home, told us that this kid called the buddy he was camping with, with ds stolen phone. His family came to our house with him, apologised and told us that this was not the first time and that family members won't let him out of their site at their homes. He was caught another two times, finally going to JJC for a while and I think now is no longer in school (home-schooled) or in a boy's school. If it had been small and first time, probably would have spoken with family but I think the value of the item has a lot to do with it, esp with the watch for me (compound family heirloom and the value, irreplaceable). We did get back everything except the money and the psp, he had already sold the psp.
 
If he was willing to give it back and do some kind of work to repay me for my trouble, no I wouldn't. If he wasn't willing to accept the consequences I gave, yes I would. He has to learn somehow. It would definitely be more about him than me.
I agree! I think that kids do stupid things.

My DH is a police officer. The system pampers kids. Unfortunately, they don't like to put kids in a jail cell. This isn't a felony, and if the kid got a FINE, you would be lucky. (I can just see this kid, if he was a snot, with a smile on his face as the judge handed over the fine as punishment... yeah, mommy and daddy would probably pay it for him, end of story.) You CAN, however, arrange with the judge for another form of punishment as restitution to you in lieu of pressing charges.

This kid would be raking ALL of my fall leaves, picking them out of my bushes and shrubs, out of my flower beds, and out of my gutters - the whole while, thinking about MY camera that he stole. :thumbsup2
 












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