ok heres my problem my sil tells us this weekend she gets a free trip from her work but instead shes going to take the cash and pay for a house(for all 12 of us in the family) near disney for 2 weeks next june ok heres my problem we want to go and take our dds my dh is an accountant and about that time of the yr they are doing yr end close at his work he might be able to come down only for a week(maybe if hes lucky and hes gonna have his laptopmeaning alot of working at night after the parks) now he keeps telling me to take the girls and go and have a great time even if he cant get off at all i want him to come down for at least a week i understand he wont be able for the whole two weeks i feel bad about going with his side of the family(yes we all get along great)with him not there at all ...what would you do would you go knowing your dh might not be able to go on family vaca with you or just plan on them being there with you for a week ...i dont know what do you guys think im kinda hoping he can come down(at least the week) and staying there with the girls for the next week with the rest of the family what are your thoughts??