underdesea
Crazee Cat Ladee
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OK, so the Tiger Woods story and the now-infamous voice-mail-message-to-mistress got me thinking about my own dating history, and a particular ex who came up with some very creative ways to explain away evidence of his cheating. I'm wondering, for those of you who have been in a relationship with someone who cheated, what is the worst explanation you received when he/she was "caught?"
For example, long ago, when I was dating, I was in a supposedly exclusive long-distance relationship (I know, that was a difficult one to start with). My boyfriend was visiting me, and I was looking for something in his briefcase -- don't remember what now, because instead of what I was looking for, I found a business card from an exotic dancer (who knew they had business cards?). When I confronted him, he said it was from someone he knew who wanted to get into his line of work, and he was "consulting" with her. Uh huh.
I was young and stupid then, so I more or less accepted his explanation. Flash Forward (yeah, I love the show) to a weekend visit in his state. I was unpacking and opened up one of his bureau drawers to put in my stuff. What do I find but a pair of women's underwear. Again, confront. He tells me they were "wrapping from a gag gift from a friend of his." Again, huh.
So, just wondering if anyone else ever got a really bad excuse when finding really incriminating evidence involving a significant other?
For example, long ago, when I was dating, I was in a supposedly exclusive long-distance relationship (I know, that was a difficult one to start with). My boyfriend was visiting me, and I was looking for something in his briefcase -- don't remember what now, because instead of what I was looking for, I found a business card from an exotic dancer (who knew they had business cards?). When I confronted him, he said it was from someone he knew who wanted to get into his line of work, and he was "consulting" with her. Uh huh.
I was young and stupid then, so I more or less accepted his explanation. Flash Forward (yeah, I love the show) to a weekend visit in his state. I was unpacking and opened up one of his bureau drawers to put in my stuff. What do I find but a pair of women's underwear. Again, confront. He tells me they were "wrapping from a gag gift from a friend of his." Again, huh.
So, just wondering if anyone else ever got a really bad excuse when finding really incriminating evidence involving a significant other?