worried I wont fit everything in

You won't be able to do everything. There's just too much. You just need to accept that.

This is the truth! We were on the WBPC. I was anal about doing everything and I had calendars and spreadsheets so we did not miss any special activities or tours. We were on the ship for 11 sea days and 3 port days and I STILL missed stuff. As the cast of Frozen says "Let it go! Let it go!" and you will have a much more enjoyable trip.
 
We did the 15 night PCWB last year. Even after all that time, there were still things we didn't make it to. If you do everything on the first cruise, there's nothing left to go back for. We had one to two things planned every day; excursions, tasting classes, DIS meet, etc. Other than that, we just did whatever we felt like at that moment. I got sick for a few days, so while my plan was to go running in the morning then hit the rainforest room, then the Panama Canal pilot talks, what really happened was sleeping in and being lazy. I was disappointed to miss the talks, but we just go with the flow. No use worrying about it or regretting it later.

I know this is just saying what everyone else has, but it's true! ;) This bandwagon is getting a little full, maybe we need a bus.

Hi,

I would just like to say that I loved your post, my family did the EBPC Cruise last October. We also took it easy and did what we wanted. Some of my favorite moments were the unplanned ones and we did things "just because". Even if we were not doing anything, we still had fun and always found something to do even if it is as simple as riding the glass elevator when the ship is in port just for the fun of it. We loved the PC cruise because we had extra time to walk around and smell the pixie dust. I hope you had a great time on your cruise, I think we might have to get a whole fleet of buses to fit the people on the DCL do what you want and do not rush on the cruise bandwagon.
 
You will not fit in everything. And that's OK. Accept it and stop worrying.

What you should do instead is to follow Rick Steves' (the PBS travel guy) thought: "expect that you'll be back". We took a 3 nighter. Not even a year later we did a 4 night. Then another then another. (in the meantime we re-found Royal and are now focusing on royal but the same issue exists on any cruiseline)

The biggest thing I've found with cruises, and I don't mean this in a frantic, worrying way, is that time on a cruiseship might be scheduled in 15 minute increments. And, again, that's OK. If Cinderella is meeting at 10:30, and it's 9, don't just sit there! Unless sitting there is what you WANT to do. Don't sit and be bored. Sit and relish the sitting. Or take a half hour tour. Then go check out a DVC meeting (none of them are closed to ONLY members). Leave when you want. Go see something else. Take a walk around the jogging track deck (5? 4? can never recall). At 10:20 go to the Cinderella meet/greet spot. Meet her. After that, do something else.

Just don't be frantic about missing things. Plan it, do it. Be relaxed about the planning and the doing. It'll be OK.

We have an excursion booked for one hour at 11am. So really this will mean that there is no point going to the beach first and setting up camp when we will then have to go to our excursion. We finish at 12 and then plan to go to serenity bay and relax for the afternoon, but if we do that it really doesn't leave us with alot of time to go to pelican plunge or to have a walk around.

Oh you can get some good relaxing in the time before your excursion, though! but if you don't want to, don't! Sleep in. Get ready. Get breakfast. Disembark. Go to your excursion. etc.

5 times on CastawY (one of our 4-nighters was a double dip) and I haven't been to Pelican Plunge once. DS and DH have. Once. I still haven't rented a bike.

What's important to me on Castaway is doing the 5K (which I've done every time, plus the extra paid one after January marathon weekend) and relaxing. So that's what I've done. If Pelican Plunge were important, I'd take some time to do it! If it's important to you, on your way to Serenity, go check it out! Or leave Serenity early and go experience it. Don't worry, don't fret...just prioritize. :)

Ok so someone relax me and tell me that time wont go by as quick as I think it will and I can do everything I want!!!

I can't do that. It's not true.

Time is going to fly, so you have to make the best of it. Not the "most" but the best. Prioritize. Take the TIME to read the Navigators. That time is WELL spent, even on a 3-nighter. If you just let it slip by you'll get to the end of the cruise and wonder what happened. Read the Navigators and plan. If you have smartphones, download the Navigator app and USE that! It uses the free wifi (you can't accidentally use the paid wifi, I promise) and you can see ALL Navigators for your cruise with it! So if meeting Jack Sparrow is important, you can see that/if he's meeting at the D-Lounge today at noon, but he's ALSO meeting just off the ship on Castaway tomorrow at 10:30 and then at Pelican Point at 11:15. That way you can work out when it works *for you* to meet him.

Reading the Navigators takes time but helps you use your time. And that's sweet.


I am the biggest planner and wanted so much to just relax on this cruise but looks like I will have to make a plan to relax!!!

Yep! And, say it with me by now, that's OK! :)

On Royal, where they have really good sundecks (I can never find a lounger on Dream), I plan my lounging in the sun time. I plan it in 15 minute increments. 15 minutes on my back. Flip over for 15. And again and again. One hour and I'm done with the sun! If I were a less burnable person I'd hang out longer, but I am melanin deficient LOL, so that's my sun time. Then I move on to something else.

Also, Nassau is not unique to DCL. Any cruise line can take you there, and for a good bit cheaper. If you are more jazzed about the ship than the port, maybe save Nassau for a future cruise where the port is more interesting to you than the ship.

YES.
though I think all main cruiselines have really interesting, fun, ships where you can find tons to do. So you still have to prioritize.

We've gotten off the ship in Nassau twice. First was on our first DCL experience, the 3 nighter. Our cousins were staying onboard and we thought "it's our first time here, we have to get off". I tried to do the self-led walking tour but we were unsuccessful (the streets weren't well-marked, at least by the time we got to Elizabeth Street, and the sidewalks disappeared and we didn't appreciate that) and went back to the ship. Our second time we took the chocolate factory tour (I highly recommend that, by the way! you are driven there, so you see a little bit of Nassau, get the lay of the land, you make some chocolate stuff, and you have the opportunity to buy some expert-made chocolates...it's ALL good). After having the factory tour, we regret taking the time on our first trip.


Plan things out, even leisure. With each activity (and walking along the deck holding hands with your sweetie can be considered an activity), enjoy the heck out of it. Be present with it, have fun, pay attention. And then when the mental timer dings, move on to the next thing and enjoy that, too. Don't regret anything you choose to do, even sleeping in.
 

You WON'T fit everything. I have done two three-night Dream cruises and have yet to ride the Aquaduck, see a movie, do a beverage tasting, etc. The key to enjoying a three-night cruise is to accept you won't be able to do everything you want and just have fun doing what you can. Enjoy!
 
Even if we were not doing anything, we still had fun and always found something to do even if it is as simple as riding the glass elevator when the ship is in port just for the fun of it.

:)

Thinking more about this...I think the key for us to have more fun on the short cruises is to do everything with intention. And to pay attention as I said above. There is no "just walking to dinner". You walk to dinner and you notice the art, you notice the pretty railings, you watch others playing the ship detective game, seeing what you THOUGHT was art come to life. etc. That way, even if you don't have time to play that detective thing, you've noticed it, and you didn't just walk on by. Vacations get a lot richer if you're noticing these things. I had a hard time adapting to this on our first cruise, even though I had learned it at Disneyland. I'm still having a hard time doing it at WDW even though I can do it at Universal. At DL I can be walking quickly and with purpose, AND notice the gorgeous topiary and flowers that I'm walking by. At WDW I miss stuff all the time and still can't reliably know which way to get to Innoventions vs Soarin' or whatever. On the ship I was really focused in front of my face, and missed bigger pictures.

Hopefully your question and our answers will help you really just have fun every minute, even if you're just brushing your teeth. Because the shelves in the bathroom are quite nice and pretty, and there's no need to mindlessly brush teeth if you don't want to. :)
 

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