So, to address a few things:
Summer is not my ideal time to visit, but it's our only option this time. We will be visiting during cooler months after this trip, since my youngest will be graduated from HS in 2024. We need to go to Orlando for my kids to see their grandma, who is experiencing rapid mental and physical decline due to Parkinsons. This may be the last time they see her where she remembers them. I don't want to wait until the fall or winter.
We are not WDW newbies. We have been several times, most recently 2018 as a family over July 4 week. We tried the early morning thing. Was a disaster. It's not just the heat, but the sun. My son could NOT handle it. We had to leave MK by 10am because he was dying. Plus, my kids NEVER adjust to the jet lag, so they stay on CA time, and a 7am wakeup is NOT pretty at WDW. When we let them sleep on their natural schedule (1am to 10am FL time), we had a MUCH better time.
We will do the second daily drop for the VQ rides. I am not setting a 7am alarm on vacation.
We plan to spend the early part of the day in the hotel pool, Typhoon Lagoon, or having a nice sit down lunch or brunch somewhere. We will drive over to visit my parents and spend time at their house. My son is fine at the pools midday. As long as he is wet, he's good. He wears a quick dry hat even in the pool, to keep the sun out of his eyes.
We plan to hit the parks around 4-5pm and stay through closing. This worked well for us last time. We work around the afternoon storms.
We use a
DAS, so pairing that with
Genie+ will be good enough. We only ride a few things in each park. We skip most of the
Disneyland duplicates where the WDW version is inferior. We also plan to do the Deluxe Resort evening extra magic hours, which will be perfect for our schedule. As an example, at HS, all we will do is Slinky Dog Dash, Tower of Terror, and Alien Swirling Saucers. At AK, all they want to do is Everest, Kali River Rapids, and maybe FOP.
We can do the walk from BC to International Gateway in 5 minutes. We are fast walkers. Running over there to tap in after breakfast, before we hit the pools or whatever, will NOT be a burden. It will then free us up to visit whatever park we decide on that day.
We will be spending most of our time at Epcot and MK. Even with only doing evenings, we like the park hopper when staying at BC for the ability to walk into Epcot anytime and grab a snack or drink. I will often do this during the day while the kids are hanging out in the room or at the pool.
We are using the military armed forces salute hoppers. They are CHEAP. There is no non hopper version. It's $366 for a 5 day hopper. Adding on water parks raises the price to $396. It's a no brainer.