Wishes Wedding 1/17/11-WP/CG-TR Day 6, Last Day

[tinkerbell 766]

Aww Jules sweetie you look so gorgeous!!
I love the headband but have no idea how you would marry (pun intended!!) it with the veil. I am not so good at picturing these things!!

 

[NOMNOMNOMS]

You look GORGEOUS!

 

[princesswendy720]

I think the headband will flatten the front part of your hair..at least some of it. I'd suggest getting some rhinestone hair combs or pins. If your hair was pulled straight back..the headband might work. But since it is parted in the front I don't think it will.

 

[Jules~Marie]

OMG Julia, you look so beautiful!!!!!! Not that you aren't pretty to begin with but you are going to look so pretty on your wedding day. I love the hair in the back.

I always love the job make-up artists do for weddings. If I ever hit the lotto I am going to hire one to do my hair and make-up everyday. LOL.

I like that headband, it looks like a tiara. It's elegant enough to add some wow & pizazz but not too big to take away from your hair. Do you know what I mean?

Thanks, I felt so cool getting my makeup done, and afterward I didn't feel like there was too much makeup on or anything, I just felt great!

Haha my sister and I always say when we win lotto we're going to have our hair stylist live in our basement and do our hair everyday.

Yes, I know what you mean about the tiara/headband. I think technically it is a tiara, but it's not a crown which is what I don't want to wear. I like it, I'm just not sure it'll match the hairstyle..

Aww Jules sweetie you look so gorgeous!!
I love the headband but have no idea how you would marry (pun intended!!) it with the veil. I am not so good at picturing these things!!

I don't know how I'll marry it with the veil either! I'm horrible at picturing these things...maybe I'll buy something and bring it to Patricia and let her figure it out...I assume she's got plenty of experience with these things!

You look GORGEOUS!

Thank you!

I think the headband will flatten the front part of your hair..at least some of it. I'd suggest getting some rhinestone hair combs or pins. If your hair was pulled straight back..the headband might work. But since it is parted in the front I don't think it will.

Thank you for your input! I totally agree with you. I was thinking the same thing when I found the headband online..I like the idea of the hair combs. Now I have some shopping to do! Time to search for some combs!

 

[Jules~Marie]

Since I'm not cooking today (yay!), I figured I'd update my pj a little.

We purchased our favors! Woot! One less thing to do! Here they are:

Eddie designed our table names/place cards/welcome bag labels, so I thought I'd share those with you today.

Place cards (sample name ) -
(They're going to be tented)

Table Name - *We decided to name our tables after cruise ships. We thought they were fitting since they have kind of "magical" names, plus we're going on a cruise for our honeymoon. For the table names we have: Magic, Imagination, Dream, Destiny, and I think the last one was Fantasy. The names might change a little.

Now, we're thinking we might make this pink with brown writing..but we're still not sure about that. We're going to put these in clear frames on the tables.

Lastly, we've been purchasing things for our welcome bags. We're still planning on buying a few more items. We're going to put a couple of bottles of water in the bags, some more snacks, and my sister and I think we can make mickey head rice krispie treats...we'll see how those turn out!
The bags (purchased at Michaels)-
(hehe, I just noticed you can see my dogs head in the top corner)

The goodies (so far)-

The labels-

I went for my dress fitting on Saturday. The woman at Davids Bridal that helped me was so amazing. She spent over an hour showing me different bustles until she came up with one that I absolutely loved. I felt so bad making her go through all of that, but all she kept saying was this is your day, you need to love your gown. She was amazing, and I fell in love with my dress, finally! I was on the fence about it for a while, but after it being pulled in to fit me and having the bustle up, it looked amazing! I can't wait to show you guys! I pick it up on Dec. 15th.

Well that's all for now. I hope everyone has an amazing Thanksgiving!!!

 

[tinkerbell 766]

Everything is looking fantastic Jules!!!
Glad you are so happy with your dress!!

 

[Jules~Marie]

Everything is looking fantastic Jules!!!
Glad you are so happy with your dress!!

Thank you!

 

[Jules~Marie]

I. Am. Freaking. Out.

I don't know where the time is going and I'm losing my mind! I gave myself an awful headache today thinking of everything that needs to be completed.

I'm having an issue with transportation....A lot of our guests will have cars with them, most are driving down, but I'm nervous about everyone getting to the WP and the Contemporary Resort on their own. I know I probably shouldn't worry about this, but it is causing me so much stress. I asked if there was anything cheaper than getting a chartered bus, and I was told I could charter a "mini bus" for $100 cheaper than the regular bus. That's not really that helpful...I don't want people to be confused the day of the wedding, I'd like everyone to have a way to get there without having to think too much. Everyone's spending a fortune to go to the wedding, and I feel that they shouldn't have to be concerned with how they're going to actually get to the wedding. Should I just rent the smaller bus? I was told it's around $450 or so.

I also completely forgot that I'm going to need to tip everyone!!! How dumb am I?! I swear I am losing my mind. I know I'm supposed to get my planner/assistant a gift, but I didn't even think about videographer/photographer/DJ...who else??? Hair & makeup?? I know I've read threads on here about tipping before, but honestly it hasn't been very helpful to me. Everyone just says if the person owns the company, then don't tip...but that doesn't seem right to me. And if I want to tip, how much should I tip??!!! I don't think $20 would be sufficient... ugh. ugh. ugh.

I feel like we have nothing done. I have to relax, I am getting so many freaking gray hairs it's unbelievable!

 

[smileycrissy]

BREATHE!!!

Don't freak out, I know its easier said than done. Trust me, I freak out over everything and give myself tons of headaches. As for the headaches, may I suggest Excedrin Tension headache. They work wonders, in 15-30 mins the headache is usually gone or lightened up. You may want to get yourself a small bottle since you may have random freak out moments.

Were you able to call Mears for a quote on transportation? Do you want me to check what other charter buses there are in the area (since I'm in Orlando and near Disney)?

As for tips, I tend to tip everyone. DF and I are very generous tippers to those who deserve it. I would say if you feel the hair stylist, DJ, photographer, florist (?), etc deserved the tip, then give it to them. The tip should vary, I agree you can't give a $20 tip to someone who's been working for a few hours like the DJ/Photographer versus someone driving the charter bus (if you go that route). Maybe $20 an hour for the photo/video/DJ? I think that sounds fair.

Can I suggest something as a gift for the planner/assistant? What about a nice pen set? You figure they must use a lot of pens throughout the day.

Don't freak out, everything will turn out ok.

Oh, by the way I LOVE the favors. They are too cute and so fitting for Disney. I can't wait to see your dress.

 

[Jules~Marie]

BREATHE!!!

Don't freak out, I know its easier said than done. Trust me, I freak out over everything and give myself tons of headaches. As for the headaches, may I suggest Excedrin Tension headache. They work wonders, in 15-30 mins the headache is usually gone or lightened up. You may want to get yourself a small bottle since you may have random freak out moments.

Yes it is easier said than done lol! I definitely am a bit of a worrier, I can't help it! See, I was missing the tylenol yesterday. I ran out of everything. I am definitely going to pick up some Excedrin today! Thanks for the avice.

Were you able to call Mears for a quote on transportation? Do you want me to check what other charter buses there are in the area (since I'm in Orlando and near Disney)?

You know, to be completely honest, I had forgotten all about my previous transportation issues. My family all told me everyone will be fine getting to the wedding, so I kind of let it go. But yesterday I just started thinking of everything and I convinced myself that I need to get everyone a way to the wedding. So then I dug through my PJ and found the link you had provided for Mears. I am still trying to figure their website out, I think tomorrow I will just go ahead and call them and see what we can do. We only need transportation for 20 people, so hopefully I can spend way less than $450. Thank you so much for the offer to look for other transportation! You are too sweet. I think I'm going to call Mears and talk with them, and I also asked my planner if she had any other suggestions besides the vans. If I still don't get an answer I'm looking for, then I might take you up on that offer!

As for tips, I tend to tip everyone. DF and I are very generous tippers to those who deserve it. I would say if you feel the hair stylist, DJ, photographer, florist (?), etc deserved the tip, then give it to them. The tip should vary, I agree you can't give a $20 tip to someone who's been working for a few hours like the DJ/Photographer versus someone driving the charter bus (if you go that route). Maybe $20 an hour for the photo/video/DJ? I think that sounds fair.

That's a good idea, $20 an hour. I'm definitely going to want to give something, I can't believe I forgot all about tipping! I honestly don't know about the florist, since she is the owner do I tip anyway? I guess if I absolutely love the flowers, I will have something ready to give her. Ugh, it's always so awkward giving tips. This little job will gladly be handed over to my brother (best man)!

Can I suggest something as a gift for the planner/assistant? What about a nice pen set? You figure they must use a lot of pens throughout the day.

I LOVE the idea of a pen set!!! I have an obsession with pens, I'm always on the hunt for the perfect pen at my job, so I think this is a great idea. I was originally going to get them a fruit basket, but this is SO much better!!!!

Don't freak out, everything will turn out ok.

We'll see if I can listen to that advice, I'm going to try very hard to remain calm.

Oh, by the way I LOVE the favors. They are too cute and so fitting for Disney. I can't wait to see your dress.

Thank you!!!!!! I absolutely love our favors!!!! I can't wait to get them in and see what they look like in person! Thanks for all your help, you're the best!

 

[Jules~Marie]

I posted this on the main board, but I also wanted to post here.


Vicki posted some pics from our engagement session on her facebook page! I haven't saved them to my computer yet, so here's a link to their facebook page. http://www.facebook.com/NayliseNJoseph#!/album.php?aid=253622&id=111170876189



49 Days!!!

 

[ValerieDFTWBride]

Your pictures look great!!

 

[neener3]

You can spend way less than $450!

We're transporting 8 people to SBP via van for a grand total of $25.00. Of course, it's only one way, but you could do 3 vans for $75.00, or $150.00 for a round trip.

These are the options my planner sent me:

Town car charter (3 hour minimum) - $120.00
Charter van (3 hour minimum) - $204.75
Charter van (one way) - $25.00

HTH!

 

[smileycrissy]

You look beautiful in your pics!! You guys make such a cute couple.

I love the one at the photo booth, it looked too cute.

 

[Jules~Marie]

Your pictures look great!!

Thank you!

You can spend way less than $450!

We're transporting 8 people to SBP via van for a grand total of $25.00. Of course, it's only one way, but you could do 3 vans for $75.00, or $150.00 for a round trip.

These are the options my planner sent me:

Town car charter (3 hour minimum) - $120.00
Charter van (3 hour minimum) - $204.75
Charter van (one way) - $25.00

HTH!

Thank you so much for the info!!!! This helps so much, I'm going to email my planner to see what we can get. Thanks again!!!

You look beautiful in your pics!! You guys make such a cute couple.

I love the one at the photo booth, it looked too cute.

Thank you!!! I really like the photo booth one too, although my sister and Eddie both think it's cheesy. I think the one of us in front of ADH is WAY cheesier than the photo booth one!

 

[April Elizabeth]

You look beautiful in your pics!! You guys make such a cute couple.

I love the one at the photo booth, it looked too cute.

I love the photo booth one too! I also like the one on the beach with the orangish sky.
You have such a nice variety. Your hair and make-up look so nice too.

 

[Kristinella]

Just caught up on your plans..love how it's all coming together.

Breathe..everything is happening so fast but you need to breathe so you can enjoy it..it will all work out!

Tipping is fine to do if you feel that the particular wedding professional did above and beyond what you hired them to do..you don't necessarily need to tip everyone or anyone for that matter. See how you and YOUR HUSBAND )) feel after your wedding day. It's always nice (and good etiquette) to send a handwritten note along with a tip..so don't worry about carrying extra cash on your for your big day..take the time after your wedding to thank the pros for going above and beyond. Anything, even if there is no tip, will be greatly appreciated by the wedding pros who you hired for your wedding day.

I hope this helps, please let me know if you have any other questions or if I can help in any other way. THANKS!

 

[Princess SarahK]

Not sure where Ive been to miss your PJ but im hooked! Im so sorry to hear you are stressed! It will all work itself out! Its awesome you dropped your overall cost, youve got me going back and looking at my budget now. I wanna save too! lol Thats great you are now in love with your gown, I cant imagine not being in love on your day..who knows how you would feel then..you know? Oh and I peeked at your E-pics, they are gorgeous! Stay calm and the Excedrin really does work! I work myself up too, so I know all about it!

 

[Mydisneywedding]

I had the chance to read your PJ today and love all the plans, your picture are so nice. I was getting excited as I was reading, as much as I freak out about planning a wedding right after Christmas I feel so much better I am not the only one.

I loved that your family surprised you at the Shower... My mom and sister knew I didn't want a shower but gave me one any way and I cried like a baby when I walked in so don't feel bad. It's just an emotionl time.

Keep posting updates, and I will try to do the same... We'll keep each other sane in the next 4 weeks!!!

 

[Jules~Marie]

Just caught up on your plans..love how it's all coming together.

Breathe..everything is happening so fast but you need to breathe so you can enjoy it..it will all work out!

Tipping is fine to do if you feel that the particular wedding professional did above and beyond what you hired them to do..you don't necessarily need to tip everyone or anyone for that matter. See how you and YOUR HUSBAND )) feel after your wedding day. It's always nice (and good etiquette) to send a handwritten note along with a tip..so don't worry about carrying extra cash on your for your big day..take the time after your wedding to thank the pros for going above and beyond. Anything, even if there is no tip, will be greatly appreciated by the wedding pros who you hired for your wedding day.

I hope this helps, please let me know if you have any other questions or if I can help in any other way. THANKS!

Thanks for the tips on giving tips! lol I never thought about sending a tip and note after the wedding, that makes sense and makes me feel a lot less stressed. I'm not really up to speed on good etiquette for a wedding, so it's great coming here and finding out what is best to do! Thanks for making me feel so much better about this!

Not sure where Ive been to miss your PJ but im hooked! Im so sorry to hear you are stressed! It will all work itself out! Its awesome you dropped your overall cost, youve got me going back and looking at my budget now. I wanna save too! lol Thats great you are now in love with your gown, I cant imagine not being in love on your day..who knows how you would feel then..you know? Oh and I peeked at your E-pics, they are gorgeous! Stay calm and the Excedrin really does work! I work myself up too, so I know all about it!

Thanks for reading! I feel so great about our budget, it's sometimes a little sad when you have to cut things you really wanted to have, but I had to tell myself it was necessary and now I don't have to worry about stressing the budget, I can just stress everything else instead lol. And hey, I still might win lotto before my wedding and then I'll be able to have everything I want!

I had the chance to read your PJ today and love all the plans, your picture are so nice. I was getting excited as I was reading, as much as I freak out about planning a wedding right after Christmas I feel so much better I am not the only one.

I loved that your family surprised you at the Shower... My mom and sister knew I didn't want a shower but gave me one any way and I cried like a baby when I walked in so don't feel bad. It's just an emotionl time.

Keep posting updates, and I will try to do the same... We'll keep each other sane in the next 4 weeks!!!

It is such an emotional time! I can't believe how crazy I've been, I've been crying while watching "Say yes to the dress" in the lunchroom at work...I look like a complete idiot! hahaha I will try to continue posting updates, and I am counting on you to keep me sane now! Good luck with all of your planning!!!