But, there is absolutely no way that taking a car from an off-site location is quicker than taking a bus from an on-site hotel, unless the bus is having issues. Also, you then have to pay $10/day to park.
The OP asked about her FIRST trip. For ease, convenience, on-site benefits, etc. the Deluxes or DVC properties cannot be beat for a first experience.
Disagree with the first part, agree with the last.
We have stayed at every level at WDW but not a monorail resort. We have also stayed at 2 bedroom condos in the Lake buena vista area, acutally 1 mile to DTD. In our experience, MK is the ONLY park that the buses are an advantage. But even for MK, if we are headed back in the afternoon to stay for the night's parade/fireworks, I'd much rather drive. We have done the buses so many times at night for MK........only a few times it's been a nightmare.........but last August I think was the last time for us not driving to the park. When we went back another night we drove. Yes, you need the boat or monorail and then a tram, but at least my family (with three kids) is sitting down. I just can't stand there for 15 minutes or more after a day at the parks and then not be guaranteed a seat on the bus(only once did we get a seat). I thought my 6 year old was going to cry.
We also had AP's ..........if you have AP's you don't pay for parking.
We couldn't believe how quick it was to EPCOT, MGM and even AK. And the really nice part at the condo was, we parked right outside our front door. This past August we stayed at POR.......love the resort but we walked for 10 minutes, including a flight, of stairs to get to our door. Ouch! You wouldn't have that with deluxes though.
Now, the second part I can agree with because our first trip was onsite also. I do think that you trade off some things with offsite. The atmosphere on site is great. Not that offsite is bad.......no way. It's just, well, offsite.

I think the first trip should be onsite to really get you hooked on coming back to WDW.........then get a bigger place offsite. Just my 2 cents.
I know you'll have a great time either way.
