Okay, I see both sides of the late vs early seating question. I took the early one for our Easter 2006 cruise because I just figured we wouldn't be able to digest that much food at 9pm (by the time dinner's on the table). My 5 yr old, however, is used to the late dinners that her teen sister's require because of sports. And when we go to Disney we're always eating late at Epcot in order to see Illuminations as we leave. We stay up late and sleep late.
What do you miss if you have the late seating???? Would more of the teens (17 & 15) be in the 2nd seating normally? It sounds like the 2nd seating might be quieter if everyone is falling asleep at the table!!!!