Okay, so I'm looking at hotels that are within walking distance and others that are a tad on the far side of walking distance. My husband thinks we should spend $400 more and stay within walking distance. I am having a hard time spending $400 more when the total cost is already a lot of money. So, I was thinking, if parking only costs $14, why not get the lower cost hotel, and then drive to and park at disneyland? Is there some reason why parking at disneyland should be avoided?
Absolutely, unless you enjoy wasting time sitting in your car waiting to get into the parking garage, then to an available spot, then waiting for the tram, then the tram ride, and then you STILL have to walk from DTD. It takes time, sometimes alot of time. Some of the crankiest vistors I have seen were getting off of those trams from the parking lots. They hadn't even made it to the parks yet and they were tired, impatient and irritable. I am not that patient and neither are my children. And you have to do it all in reverse at the end of the day.
I see time as money. I am already spending quite a bit of money for my DL trip, a little more in order to spend more time doing what I originally came to do is money well spent. I came to DL with the intention of touring the parks, seeing shows, and riding rides. None of that magic happens in a parking lot or garage or on So Cal freeways. We park our car once and it doesn't move until we say goodbye to the Happiest Place on Earth.
I also like the freedom of going back to the hotel for an afternoon break. We eat off property more often than not (a cost savings) and enjoy a swim/nap/glass of wine or bottle of beer break. It gives your feet a rest and the kids a bit of time to just be. When they were little that nap was absolutely necessary in order for us to see F! and fireworks. Otherwise they and we were simply too tired.
If there is one piece of advice I can honestly say has made a profound impact on our DL trips, it was the advice to stay within walking distance. I give this piece of advice to everybody we know that goes. And without fail, those that choose not to listen and stay further away do not have a superb Disney experience. Some realize their mistake, others simply assume that Disney is not for them. I see it as a make or break for the Disney vacation experience, but, as always, YMMV.