Why is the grass always greener on the other side of the fence

[Serena]

Why are people so willing to throw away what they have?
What do you do when the person is sitting on top of the fence not knowing what to do?

 

[Lucky4me]

serena, push them off!

Seriously, it's hard to say without specifics so I'll just say {{hugs}} and I hope things are better soon.

 

[browneyes]

Laurie, just be there for them. Sometimes knowing someone is there and that someone actually cares makes all the difference in the world. {{hugs}} If this is about that boat of yours, use a frying pan.

 

[Serena]

It's my husband trying to decide if he wants to throw away 20 years (9-19) of marriage or not.

 

[JasonLyons]

hang in there

 

[Saffron]

{{{{{Hugs}}}}}

 

[browneyes]

Originally posted by Serena
It's my husband trying to decide if he wants to throw away 20 years (9-19) of marriage or not.

Like I said, use that frying pan. {{hugs}}

 

[Rajah]

*hugs*

 

[The Mystery Machine]

No advice just lots of {hugs}...

 

[meeshi]

(((((((HUGS)))))))

 

[Mamu]

If you think it's worth it fight back every way you know how. If that doesn't work then he's the loser.

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[kejoda]

{{{HUGS}}} Serena.

 

[SuiteDisney]

(((hugs)))

 

[nativetxn]

Oh sweetie No advice, just {{{HUGS}}} and a reminder that we are always here if you need to talk and we care <b>a lot!</b>

More {{{HUGS}}}

Katholyn

 

[Serena]

Some days I wonder if he is worth it. Part of me wants to tell him to get the hell out until he makes up his mind.

Most of me just wants my husband back. The guy I fell in love with 21 years ago.

 

[shep]

Hang in there kiddo.. (((hugs)))

 

[JerseyJanice]

Serena, I'm so sorry.

Have you suggested counseling?

 

[helenabear]

No advice... just tons of big {{{HUGS}}}

 

[Dan Murphy]

Adding mine to all these here, Laurie, my {hugs} that things go better for you guys.

 

[newmousecateer]

Sorry you are going through this. {{{{HUGS}}}}