We've been on a total of four cruises. One was Celebrity, for our honeymoon, then RC pre-kids, then Disney w/kids, and then RC again w/kids. We have another
Disney cruise booked for the first week of January.
We loved Celebrity, which isn't surprising given that we had no children and it's a luxury cruise line. Then we took a cruise on one of RC's older ships and had a horrible time. This was probably ten years ago and I can't even remember the specifics, just that the ship was terribly worn and the food wasn't all that great, and the service was lackadaisical at best. And of course, our only other experience had been Celebrity, so I'm sure our expectations were too high. We swore off cruising for a long time after that.
We broke down and took our kids on
DCL about two years ago, and shockingly, I think my DH and I wound up having as much or more fun than they did. Especially my DH, who was really down on the idea of another cruise. The service was fantastic, the rooms were great, the kid's club was amazing, and there were so many special "extras." Like the meet and greets with the Disney characters, which we rarely did because my boys hate to stand in line, but so much fun to see the princesses in the atrium all lined up. My older son bumped into Ariel by accident one day and managed to squeak "Hi Ariel!" and she smiled at him and said "Hi, handsome!" And he turned bright red and didn't stop smiling until we got to wherever it was we were going. Moments like that are just priceless. We had one of the best meals of our lives at Remy. We thought the shows were fantastic, and it was such fun to take our kids to them and see them completely enthralled. I could go on and on.
Last year, my mom wanted to go on a cruise with all her kids and grandkids and paid part of it for each family. Disney was just too cost-prohibitive, so we wound up on RC's Independence. After our last experience, DH and I were leery but we made up our minds to be good sports no matter what. Well, we were very pleasantly surprised. The ship was beautiful. The service was outstanding, I'd say every bit as good as Disney's (once we actually got on the ship, that is, their shore-side customer service is appallingly bad, as is their website). The food was good, not quite as good as Disney. Specialty restaurants were yummy although not nearly as good as Palo and Remy IMO. My kids enjoyed the kid's club on a limited basis, although they never begged to go the way they did on the Fantasy. I think because the RC kid's club is entirely organized activities with very little free-play, which can be good or bad depending on your child. The pool area was fantastic, blew Disney's out of the water (ha ha). And we all loved Labadee.
But...for all that it was a very nice vacation, it just seemed sort of...generic. All the bars and lounges looked pretty much the same, and they all had the same drink menu. The MDR was lovely but there was nothing special that made it stand out, and being at the same table in the same room for so many nights got a little tiresome. The shows were often rather tedious (one was a straight hour of ballroom dancing, for instance). I didn't think they had as many fun offerings for activities during the daytime hours. We actually docked next to the Fantasy at one port and I got a serious pang of homesickness for it. We immediately booked another Disney cruise when we got home.
Sorry, this has turned into a very long review of two cruises, but for us, while our kids are young, Disney is worth the premium. When there comes a point that they would have more fun on an RC or NCL ship, we'll probably switch. When we are empty nesters, I could see us going back to Celebrity or something like that, but for now, for our family, we just have more fun on Disney.