Why dont people plan?

WDW can be done with very minimal planning if you want to. I usually plan very little for park days. I don't make ADRs and often don't know what park I'll be at until I wake up. I really don't stress about schedules or ADRs and if I miss something I'll just catch it next time.

WDW being stressful is self induced in my opinion.
 
I think people would get even more upset then if Disney changed things at the last minute.
When it comes to true "last minute changes" there are no degrees of "upset". Irrespective of whether you made your reservations 180 days in advance, 90 days in advance or 30 days in advance, a true last minute change will upset you equally. There is no rational basis to conclude that one would be more upset in the latter scenario. Once a plan is made it is made. How long that plan aged in the barrel won't change anything. But statistically, fewer changes can be foist upon you the closer in time that you make your reservation in relation to your arrival date. That is mathematically indisputable. A plan made the day before has less of a chance of being disturbed than a plan made 2 days before. And a plan made 30 days before has less of a chance of being disturbed than a plan made 60 days before. And so on. 180 days magnifies the problem. The issue is, where do you set the mark. In my opinion, 60 days seems just about perfect. It works for FPs. And it works for popular, high demand restaurants all over the world. Honestly, I can't understand the resistance to the idea other than "Disney chose 180 so that has to be right." What does Disney know that Danny Meyer or Gordon Ramsay or Jean-George or Daniel Boloud don't know about restaurant management?
 
WDW can be done with very minimal planning if you want to. I usually plan very little for park days. I don't make ADRs and often don't know what park I'll be at until I wake up. I really don't stress about schedules or ADRs and if I miss something I'll just catch it next time.

WDW being stressful is self induced in my opinion
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It is self induced for sure!
 
It is self induced for sure!
Of course it is. The pursuit of any highly allocated commodity is always self induced whether it be collectible sneakers, watches, wine, coins or cars. Or seats on TSMM. Or a table at BoG. One can always simply step aside and get out of the rat race. But when a person spends $5000 to go to WDW, it isn't irrational to think that they want to experience the "best stuff" that everyone is talking about. And to do that, they have to jump into the world of self induced stressful planning. Anyone who wants to limit themselves to "C Ticket" attractions, or is comfortable waiting in 75 minute lines and eating at Counter Service dining locations or the lowest rated Table Service restaurants (talking to you, Tony's), can have a stress-free vacation. No doubt about that. It is only those who aim higher that encounter stress induced planning. But it is certainly their choice.
 

While I don't dispute that the above is your experience, it definitely is not ours. I planned a trip for dh and I with less than 2 months notice in 2007. Did the same with less than 2 months notice for a friend of mine in 2014. It was much more difficult and took a lot more effort on my part to get my friend ADRs (for 3 people) than it took me to get ones for dh and I in 2007. in 2007 I literally made 1 phone call and had every reservation we wanted, including Le Cellier and California Grill. In 2014 it required lots of searching the ADR site for many days, as well as coordinating some ADR switching on the restaurant board here as there was no other way to get an ADR.

So, as I said, I respect that the above is your experience, absolutely. But I wouldn't agree with the general idea that it's not any more difficult to get ADRs now than it was years ago...in our experience, it was much more difficult.

Our very first WDW trip was in 2007, and here is the extent of my planning: we bought a hotel/park tickets package from Disney, and I bought a few Orlando vacation guidebooks. I thus learned about fast pass, and which rides were most popular. We showed up and winged it every day, deciding on the fly where to go and what to do, and had a great trip. It was in early/mid December, and most rides were a walk-on.
On our last trip, in October 2014, I did countless hours of planning in order to squeeze the same number of rides and attractions our of our trip. There wasn't much room for winging it, and we had to rush through the parks much more. We still loved our trip, but we had to earn it.
Things have definitely changed a great deal since our first trip.
 
WDW can be done with very minimal planning if you want to. I usually plan very little for park days. I don't make ADRs and often don't know what park I'll be at until I wake up. I really don't stress about schedules or ADRs and if I miss something I'll just catch it next time.

WDW being stressful is self induced in my opinion.

How often do you go to WDW? We go about once every two years. We do miss some things on a given trip, but we want to keep that list as short as possible.
 
How often do you go to WDW? We go about once every two years. We do miss some things on a given trip, but we want to keep that list as short as possible.

I go pretty much yearly. Since 2003 I have only missed one year. Most years it is a day or two as part of a trip to Florida for something else but we try to do a 5 day trip every couple years.
 
I go pretty much yearly. Since 2003 I have only missed one year. Most years it is a day or two as part of a trip to Florida for something else but we try to do a 5 day trip every couple years.
And this more or less sets up the point /counterpoint of this entire thread. People who go annually are less likely to get upset if they don't dine in that major restaurant that all their co-workers rave about. But the person taking their first trip, or a trip that will not be repeated for 10 years, is less likely to be willing to pass that experience by. That person has to do significantly more planning. I don't think anyone can argue that getting a table at Be Our Guest doesn't require significant planning. It is just that some people don't care about doing that because they already have, and others do care about it because they haven't yet experienced it. The more often you go, the more you have done. The more you have done, the less important it is for you to lock in that special experience. But the original post here was about first timers who haven't planned and are getting shut out of major experiences. In over 30 pages in this thread, no one has yet suggested that planning is not necessary in order to enjoy all those popular experiences. The best that can be said is that those popular experiences shouldn't make or break one's trip. That is purely a personal opinion. The other point that gets made repeatedly here is that first-time guests should be able to become uber planners just like all the super fans on this board. I find that to be rather unrealistic.
 
Time before last I over planned and my family rebelled. Last time I planned a lot less and though it was better they still rebelled. I think it also helped to go at a time that wasn't very busy. Next trip it's just DH and me and I'm looking forward to strolling around the boardwalk, park hopping and Tom Sawyers Island. It seems we never have time for it any more. My DS loved shooting at the Thunder Mountain RR people when the train came out of he mountain. Of course, they were already screaming but he got a kick out of it.
 
After 32 pages, @karpy111 has yet to return to see if his basic yes/no question was answered by anyone:
Again I'm just wondering how this happens. There are so many resources out there. I feel that you have to plan to make the most of your trip.

Does anyone else see or hear of these things while at Disney?
Please remain on the topic of answering Karpy111's question.

Specific planning questions are best posed in a new Thread. Discussion of how your plans are affected by Disney's scheduling or questions about planning for other destinations can be posed in the TP Community Board or the Community Board.

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After 32 pages, @karpy111 has yet to return to see if his basic yes/no question was answered by anyone:

Please remain on the topic of answering Karpy111's question.

Specific planning questions are best posed in a new Thread. Discussion of how your plans are affected by Disney's scheduling or questions about planning for other destinations can be posed in the TP Community Board or the Community Board.

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I totally appreciate wanting to keep questions/answers on track. I think several among us did answer the original question... And then some other analogies seemed appropriate (eg comparing planning for WDW to planning for other trips). I hope we don't have to keep it so narrow that analogies or the occasional digression are problematic. :goodvibes
 
The $1000- What were they talking about?
Sorry if this was already said but:

I'm guessing it's the tours you can book. If you go to WDW's website you can search for "VIP tours" and it brings you to the page with all the tours listed:

~Food and Wine Festival VIP Tours: no pricing listed as of yet likely because it's June right now

~Ultimate Day for Young Families VIP which is $299 plus tax per person

~Ultimate Day of Thrills VIP Tour which is $299 plus tax per person

~Private Premium VIP Tour pricing depends on the time of year but is between $400 and $600 per hour with a 7 hour minimum as are all the other VIP tours-According to Disney's information on this tour on their website.

All tours require valid park admission as well.

I'm not positive where the $1,000 is coming into play because none of the tours listed above even with tax equal $1,000 unless the person at the ticket counter was including park tickets maybe?
 
Sorry if this was already said but:

I'm guessing it's the tours you can book. If you go to WDW's website you can search for "VIP tours" and it brings you to the page with all the tours listed:

~Food and Wine Festival VIP Tours: no pricing listed as of yet likely because it's June right now

~Ultimate Day for Young Families VIP which is $299 plus tax per person

~Ultimate Day of Thrills VIP Tour which is $299 plus tax per person

~Private Premium VIP Tour pricing depends on the time of year but is between $400 and $600 per hour with a 7 hour minimum as are all the other VIP tours-According to Disney's information on this tour on their website.

All tours require valid park admission as well.

I'm not positive where the $1,000 is coming into play because none of the tours listed above even with tax equal $1,000 unless the person at the ticket counter was including park tickets maybe?
Yes, I have the premium vip tour booked for 11/25. That's why I was so curious! I would much rather pay for some kind of $1k fast pass. The ultimate thrills doesn't work for us bc our main focus that day is Epcot/HS, and the ultimate tour is a set schedule of the 4 parks with a group.

The reason for the tour is - I don't have enough confidence in my touring plans to get all of that done, it's a short trip, and I don't want to have to arrive at HS at 8am one morning to sign up for Jedi training, as well as not wanting to wait in line for Chewbacca and Kylo Ren- all of which are must dos for my kid. Every time I think about the price I start to second guess my decision, so we'll see, I hope it's "worth it" lol.
 
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The planning thing got me today, and it wasn't even Disney. I'm leaving for Washington DC in the morning -- thought we'd take the kids to someplace educational.

Thought we'd take a tour of the White House. Called our Congressman four months ago. Found out this morning we were declined. We didn't schedule days because we were waiting to find about that cornerstone.

Thought we'd take a tour of the Washington Monument. Checked a month ago -- all the tours were sold out for 80 days.

Thought we'd take a tour of the National Archives. Checked about a month ago -- all the tours were sold out until August. Same thing with guided tours of just about anything.

So we'll wait in line and see the stuff we can and not worry about what we can't.
Not to get off topic here...but we're waiting on the White House tour too. I visited my husband, who is working in Maryland til July 1st, April 8th-18th. We put in a request I believe 4 weeks in advance (where the max is 6 months and the min is 3 weeks) and were told we would find out 2 weeks in advance from the day they could get us in if they actually could. We found out they were just too busy at the White House so no tour then...but they did say they had availability for a Capitol Building tour with a staff or intern member from our representative so we did that instead. 5 people including us were on the tour and we got to go into the House of Representatives (in Recess when were were in the room) and the Senate (which was actually in session when we were there where Marco Rubio was speaking). It was well worth the tour especially going through the underground tunnels from the building where the State reps have their offices which connects to the Capitol Building. I'm visiting him again from July 2nd-10th to help him pack up and use it as our 1 vacation a year place and they put in a request back in early April for us since we didn't get to go then but added my mother in law and step-father in law to the request. I'm not holding my breath especially with it being right around 4th of July but we'll see.

I remember when I found out that you could request up to 6 months in advance-which were strongly recommended and you HAD to go through your representative and was like "whoa they mean business here".. When I went to NYC 5 years ago on Memorial Day they (meaning various websites) said Statue of Liberty crown tours were usually booked solid 3 or 4 months in advance where the Pedestal tours usually booked a few weeks in advance. Glad I knew that cuz we got the Pedestal tour and it was completely booked the whole time we were there. It should be noted that I did research the Statue of Libery information on the internet because there was no way I would have known that prior to going.

Disney in many respects is vastly different than other tourist destinations but in some ways (even small ways) it is similar.
 
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Yes, I have the premium vip tour booked for 11/25. That's why I was so curious! I would much rather pay for some kind of $1k fast pass. The ultimate thrills doesn't work for us bc our main focus that day is Epcot/HS, and the ultimate tour is a set schedule of the 4 parks with a group.

The reason for the tour is - I don't have enough confidence in my touring plans to get all of that done, it's a short trip, and I don't want to have to arrive at HS at 8am one morning to sign up for Jedi training, as well as not wanting to wait in line for Chewbacca and Kylo Ren- all of which are must dos for my kid. Every time I think about the price I start to second guess my decision, so we'll see, I hope it's "worth it" lol.

Well I hope the tour goes well for you :) I've only heard of a few people going on the tours (just by reading various websites) but all liked it a lot especially because they were pressed on time. Yeah the price is well something I wouldn't want to spend (you're also talking to someone who thinks it's crazy to be charged for a side of ranch lol) but I think you'll enjoy it. At the very least maybe the next time (if there will be a next time) you may feel less pressure to get x,y,z done and with a short trip it sounds like you're trying to plan for what's most important for who is going with you.

See I see the understanding behind Disney offering these tours..at the same time though you do still have to plan for it though at least 48 hours ahead isn't too too bad though I think some can be booked up to 90 days and one I think is up to 180 days in advance--I think.
 
Of course it is. The pursuit of any highly allocated commodity is always self induced whether it be collectible sneakers, watches, wine, coins or cars. Or seats on TSMM. Or a table at BoG. One can always simply step aside and get out of the rat race. But when a person spends $5000 to go to WDW, it isn't irrational to think that they want to experience the "best stuff" that everyone is talking about. And to do that, they have to jump into the world of self induced stressful planning. Anyone who wants to limit themselves to "C Ticket" attractions, or is comfortable waiting in 75 minute lines and eating at Counter Service dining locations or the lowest rated Table Service restaurants (talking to you, Tony's), can have a stress-free vacation. No doubt about that. It is only those who aim higher that encounter stress induced planning. But it is certainly their choice.

Sorry, disagree!! We make our initial lodging ressies 3-6 months, a few dining must do's, must do FP's, then relax until a few days to a week before our trip. We are totally relaxed, usually can pick up any last minute ressies/FP's we want the last week, or even while we're there.

So, yes, we aim high, do all we plan to do, and enjoy our vacation - usually 8-10 nights. We've even gotten extra ressies for BOG for a second lunch, also last min. extra FP's for TSMM and 7DMT.

We follow enough schedules during the year without micro planning a vaca. What anyone else does is not an issue with us, just don't say it can't be done otherwise. We've done it for years - in fact, used to not even plan at all!!!! Some people enjoy all that, and that's fine, just not 'our cup of tea'!! :goodvibes
 
Yes, but to be fair, this is often a "you don't know what you don't know" kind of thing. As far as I know, there's no other theme park that requires the kind of advance planning that Disney World does. There are few things around the world, period, that require as much advance planning as Disney World. It seems insane to me that we have to make dinner reservations months in advance, and yet that's what'w required at some places! Our family goes to local places like water parks, or Six Flags, or Sea World without having to make such a plan. Even Universal Studios/Islands of Adventure, in Orlando, don't require such advance work.

How are people supposed to know that they need to do that much advance planning? They see the commercials for Disney World, they think - that sounds like fun, and they plan a trip to go. They might hear "you can start making reservations X days in advance", and they get info from Disney about how soon they can do stuff, but they're not told "if you don't plan this way in advance you won't be able to do it without a long wait," or if they are, they think "well, maybe neurotic people plan way in advance like that."

It also doesn't help when Disney changes things. I've been to Disney several times and really understood the (old) Fastpass system well. I can see lots of people who haven't been in 5 years thinking they know what they are getting into. They might even see "oh yes, there's that fastpass thing (the name's not that different). And, now they find - tough luck, you had to reserve your spot for that ride weeks ago - no fastpass for you.

There's not really a way around it, but it's easy for me to see how people fall into this situation.

the part you mentioned about the old fastpass system and now the new, is where I am at. I have always planned our Disney vacations starting a year to a year and a half in advance. I just signed up to the boards again as I couldn't remember my old password and sign on. and read something about the fastpasses being done 30 plus days in advance. So here I am trying to figure out this new change. change is good, (most of the time) but this scares me a lot. maybe once I know more about it I won't be so worried. I have to admit though that this change is causing me so anxiety.
 
Yes, I have the premium vip tour booked for 11/25. That's why I was so curious! I would much rather pay for some kind of $1k fast pass. The ultimate thrills doesn't work for us bc our main focus that day is Epcot/HS, and the ultimate tour is a set schedule of the 4 parks with a group.

The reason for the tour is - I don't have enough confidence in my touring plans to get all of that done, it's a short trip, and I don't want to have to arrive at HS at 8am one morning to sign up for Jedi training, as well as not wanting to wait in line for Chewbacca and Kylo Ren- all of which are must dos for my kid. Every time I think about the price I start to second guess my decision, so we'll see, I hope it's "worth it" lol.
Hope you have a great time -- would love to hear your review afterwards! We did the SW VIP Day tour last year and LOVED IT! It was a VERY short trip and we wanted to pack a lot in. We thought it was well worth it! And now that there are no SWW for the foreseeable future, BOY ARE WE GLAD WE DID IT! :thumbsup2
 
This is actually a troubling sign to me about Disney....the fact that one needs to pre plan every aspect of a Disney vacation is something that is a creation really of the past decade and frankly, not an encouraging one.

When we first bought into DVC over 16 years ago, and going back to the trips we made from our honeymoon on 21 years ago....one could go to Disney and do SOME pre planning, but we could eat in the places we wanted to eat. We could change a reservation on the same day. when fast passes where introduced, you could walk up to a kiosk and get a reasonable hour. You could walk over to where a parade was and get a decent spot to watch. You could watch fireworks from just about any spot without needing a fastpass for a "premium" spot.

You could also decide at a spur of the moment to plan a 3 day trip, and be able to do the things tyou wanted to do....you could even...GASP...walk up to a restaurant and wait for a table.

The problem now is that a family who doesn't understand the things we understand, and doesn't do the massive amount of research necessary, walks into a buzzsaw of things they can access...It is easy for us to wag our finger and say they should have known better, but I have a great deal of sympathy for these folks, because i remember a better time when it wasn't like it is today

This is a great point but I'll be honest, I mostly just wanted to comment on your awesome profile pic. Go Pats!!!
 
Our local high school band is at WDW for a couple of days & they marched at MK today. Got a Facebook message at 3:15 today from lady that is a chaperone for the band. She was tired of Courbet service meals & wanted a recommendation for a 'sit down ' meal ....on a Saturday... She said that she knew that me & DH have been several times & always has great meals. I honestly nearly fell out laughing....thank goodness that conversation happened by messenger. I didn't have the heart to tell her that I have already made my ADRs for September trip & the late November trip.
 












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