Well this was quite a lively topic. It shows how people approach things differently. I think there are three basic types:
1) those who plan via ADR/FP etc and most seem to enjoy the anticipation.
2) those who don't plan much but prefer it that way
3) those who don't plan bc they're unaware that they need to to avoid disappointment
All the various levels of planning (or not) are fine but I will do my best to give a heads up to those in the third group as I run into them. I learned a lot on this board and if I can help someone avoid the disappointment of not getting to do some key things they planned on, it's all good.
1) those who plan via ADR/FP etc and most seem to enjoy the anticipation.
2) those who don't plan much but prefer it that way
3) those who don't plan bc they're unaware that they need to to avoid disappointment
All the various levels of planning (or not) are fine but I will do my best to give a heads up to those in the third group as I run into them. I learned a lot on this board and if I can help someone avoid the disappointment of not getting to do some key things they planned on, it's all good.