Why do we ignore red flags in a relationship?

[Robinrs]

This ---> "But this is TRUE LOVE and we are SOUL MATES, he will CHANGE for ME!!!!!"

How many times did I hear that???? Umpteen nieces, cousins, sisters, friends and co workers.... I'm at the age now that I just shuttup sit and wait till they come to me CRYING.

 

[shortbun]

Some people just have a bad picker. I used to until I got mine fixed and now I've been happy for 28 years. Before that I dated lovely outlaws and ooooo they were fun sometimes but the bad far outweighed the good. Sandra Bullock has not yet learned that lesson. I understand what she saw in Jesse James but those kind of men are for fun not for marrying.....repeat after me.....for fun, not for marrying.