that are material???? Why in the world are you searching my posts in a very pathetic attempt to show that I am a bad person for wanting my husband's birthday made more special?? Good luck and get a life. I am talking about the exact same sort of thing, getting a happy birthday recognition via a server's comment, a song or, heaven forbid, once my daughter got a cupcake with a candle at a restaurant. I am not going to try to "debate" with meanness -- there is no sense. I am just very, very glad that you can't regulate my experiences with my family's special occasions, at Disney and other places which commonly observe them in a fun way -- let's see, there is a Mexican place which puts a sombrero on the birthday person and takes their picture as a momento, which I expect you think scandalous! And what is with all the ugly comments combined with "LOL" ?? That is too, too sad. I'm gonna go plan some more of our trip and not worry about the grumps.