Our first Christmas party was the same year as our very first trip, December 2000. MVMCP, the last one of the year if I recall, was the second day of our visit.
The tickets were less than $30 a person. Back then you either had to be in a restaurant during the "closed" period before the party started or at the gates. We hung out with Pooh and Friends at CP until they gave the go-ahead into the park.
For the first hour, with little ones, we had Fantasyland to ourselves. We walked in to take a family photo with no waiting (which were in the mail when we got home), got our MVMCP buttons, walked up for cookies and cocoa with no line (and they were nice, rich quality -- not the cardboard taste), enjoyed the santa hats placed on each Dumbo, WALKED ON to Dumbo and all the other rides over and over. I have video of daddy and daughter dancing amid drifting snowflakes on a nearly empty Main Street. We took pictures with characters we never saw out in the parks otherwise. We stayed for the second parade and kept marveling at the emptiness of the park. This was MAGIC. We were hooked.
We have returned to Disney every even-numbered year since then and have never missed a party on the trip.
Until this year.
I just can't go anymore.
Every visit the prices and the number of tickets sold increases while the value decreases. Yes, you can still find shorter lines on the rides during the event, but do you really want to pay $60 extra per person for this perk and the occasional snowflake on Main Street (yes, they've even cut those back!)?
For our dates, the same parade runs in the afternoons we are there (the week leading up to Christmas) and of course this is also the heaviest MVMCP sold-out attendance parties, so admittedly people attending earlier could add the parade viewing perk to their $60, too and not necessarily find wall to wall people and the need to get to shows an hour early to find a spot.
But for us, it's just not worth it any more.
(And since I'm on the old-timer's curmudgeon "in-my-day" side here, let me also say I loved the old parade music much better than the current one, too.

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