That's why we never bought into any
DVC's at WDW!
We have been going to WDW for 16 years, 2x's yearly, we have seen things ourselves like you have expressed, some families and people are just too high strung, and they are over vacationed* or something, I worked with JQP's (John Q. Public) for years and people do get tiresome, I mean all you are getting for big bucks is renting *space/time* from Disney, it's no different than getting a hotel room there-except you are locked into what month you can go!
You don't have any other rights* than any other JQP!!!
I mean we went to Olivia's for Lunch last year, and we overheard a family talking with another family, you would of thought they OWNED KeyWest themselves, NOT!
Along time ago we took the tour (my son was 1 he is now in HS) and we almost bought into the idea of buying into Disney, we decided no.
You are getting nothing for your money.
We come and stay, and have stayed at all the property's.
But we ended up buying in Celebration instead. I d rather have a key to a real home* that I can go to anytime I want to.
At the time we almost bought, they gave lifetime* tickets--and after 50 years the property was given right back to Disney. No thanks, If I am going to pay for something, my kids/grandkids will enjoy what we had to work so hard for.
We love the whole Disney thing, we go to all the parks, spend a ton when we come, and yes, we will stay at the Poly in two weeks.
To each their very own.
Have fun on all your Disney Trips!